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Slender, fit, honey-blonde submissive is seeking an experienced, psychologically sophisticated Dominant to love, adore, serve and worship. He is seeking a structured relationship, which includes protocols, rules and rituals that are “traditional” or “old school” in nature, for lack of better terms. The right person will know what this means. He is someone who is more about the head trip, more about the psychological aspects of expressing and exerting His Dominance, than on which toys He plans to wield in the next scene.
The psychological element of the D/s dynamic is what it’s all about for me, and everything I do for You and everything You do to me evolves from that power exchange. The dynamic comes first, the play is a result of that power exchange. I’m accustomed to and most comfortable in this kind of dynamic, and while it isn’t easy to find these days, I know You are out there.
Very few Dominants understand how to create and manage this kind of relationship, but even more significantly, have no interest in it. To many it sounds like a lot of work, and if you’re not interested in this kind of dynamic yourself, this is an understandable conclusion. But the kind of Dominant I’m holding out for understands the strength of the bond a more formal dynamic inspires, and actually enjoys the process of creating it.
Compatibility in the vanilla world is very important too, of course, but someone who has experience with a structured dynamic knows that it’s not at all unrealistic or difficult to maintain D/s protocols in the vanilla world. They’re subtle to be sure, but are a constant reminder of His stature and my place, and this is as meaningful to Him as it is to me.
It’s been my experience that most Dominants, when it comes right down to it, are more interested in what might be called "D/s lite" and this is not meant to be a pejorative term. There’s plenty of room for endless permutations for WIITWD. But if D/s to you is more about kinky sex and playing, I wish you well, but I am most definitely not the right submissive for you.
In fact, I’m not the right submissive for most of the Dominants on CM. If you are not specifically looking for a structured relationship, I am not the right submissive for you. Unless you are unattached in every sense of the word, I am not the right submissive for you. Should you have a beard, smoke or are not relatively height and weight proportionate, I am not the right submissive for you. If you have a psychotic former wife or sub, toxic parents with whom you have an ongoing relationship, dysfunctional or manipulative children, or a cat, I am not the right submissive for you.
If you are under 58 years of age, I am not the right submissive for you (I'm referring to your actual age - I get it that admitting to one's real age doesn't always attract the most optimal search results. Just be upfront about it in your message)
Please understand that if, after reading your message and looking at your profile, it’s clear that you haven’t read and understand mine, you will not receive a response.
Thank you for your possible interest, and I’m looking forward to hearing from anyone who understands and is looking for the same thing as I.
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I understand that it's not easy to write a profile that is thorough enough to give the reader a clear sense of who you are and what you seek. Mine took a few hours, but I felt it was important to let you know just what I'm looking for, so that it would resonate with those with compatible interests and discourage those who's are not. Even so, many either don't bother to read it or don't choose to believe it; if you don't hear back from me, this is likely why. Nor will I respond to you if you write nothing more than "hello" or something equally vapid.
I do enjoy reading all of the messages from those of you with whom my words resonate but have deal breakers, and I appreciate and respect that you're very upfront about this. It is a pleasure to write you back and thank you personally for taking the time to respond and, oftentimes, share your thoughts. I'm touched by how many sincere notes of this nature I've received.
May this journal entry explain to those of you who have written but received no response, just why this is. And may it also discourage and dissuade those of you who might contemplate doing so in the future.
Thank you. puppy
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| Age: 38 |
| Pittsburgh,
Pennsylvania |
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