I am submissive and yet I'm a fairly strong independent person.... does that make sense? My position at work and my public persona will not allow me to be a full time slave. I hope to find someone who understands that, respects my opinions and yet takes control in some aspects of our life. My bdsm interests are varied and I believe each D/s relationship is different and needs to be explored between the parties. Exploring, learning, and growing together is what i seek.....