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A Top/Sadist from the Chicagoland Area, ISO a bottom for play and self amusement. I'm a str8 Leather Man who is a throw back to the Old Guard ways but really doesn't live by that creedo ( Because that way of life of The Old Barons has died along w/ the society) , There is so much that I'm into that can not mention them all, but a couple of things are, OTK, Psychodrama and just plan old being a Top. A well known person through out the Leather Community and one of the co- founders of The Black and Tan Society in Chicago.
UPDATE: The Introduction maybe hash but it's true, Before I start I like to say , that some people change Identities like changing socks, as for me, I took off to think about life in general. My time off was one of a break and an educational one, looking back I see that it's petty of others to curse and place judgment on others, but I have learned to just let things go. Karma and Your Peers will judge you. not for me to decide, In my break I have discovered different views on the scene in general. For one thing I have learned that being in the scene for many years as I have, that being experiance is a blessing and a curse, a curse, cause jealousy runs rampant in our scene and you always have to defend yourself, evan to a point where the screams have turned to silence...........Now comes what I’m looking for.......First of all I’m a Heterosexual Leather Top man, not a Master, nor a Sir , I’m a Man not like All Men but “A Man” I do not claim to be a know it all on BDSM, but from what I know and Learned and Mentored by Skilled Members of The Community and by all my mistakes, has made me a better person, I do not believe in calling Women , Subs, Slaves Bitches or idiot names, I think that everyone in the Community is an EQUAL, and if I had to put a label on this subject, I would say “Bottom”, I do not let this Lifestyle handicap me, I have a TRUE balance of life , to keep me safe and in a reality check . So that I can see that we're all EQUAL . not one of M/s all the time, I have seen this behavor destroy people and I do not want my ego and lifestyle take the best of me. 2nd , I’m Single, no kids, I myself , into, , Leather, and Smoking Fetish, single tails and OTK, when I do play w/ a partner , I’m upfront when starting a friendship and let all the cards out, As adults. and I hope We all are, you can judge for yourself , if you want to be a Friend, Play Partner,or a LTR and can handle Life in general...........
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