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Hetero Male Dominant, 45,  Chicago, Illinois
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An exception to what I have written below is if you are a domme woman who enjoys the company of dominant men. If so, you should definitely write me and see if we can find some interestingly wicked things to inflict on others together.

On a further note, please do not misconstrue my intensity in my profile with a lack of humor on my part. While I might have certain inclinations in terms of kink, I am actually VERY friendly, affable, and relatively laid-back. I cant say that I dont bite, because I would be lying, but trust me, I do it with a smile! Hah!

Primarily, I wish to find someone who enjoys being on the receiving end of my aggressive, sometimes predatory impulses. My jaws and teeth are both powerful and amazingly sensitive there is little I like more than to taste silken flesh, to feel its resilient softness between my teeth, to taste and smell the flavors that exude from a womans skin as I bite her, to hear her gasps and moans as she squirms under the sting of my teeth and the crush of my jaws. Carefully, of course, because one does not wish to damage such loveliness, only mark it temporarily for the pleasure of seeing the patterns engraved in living.

I do also love using my body to control and dominate those I play with. I like pinning down women, using pressure points and locks to make them submit to what I might want to do to them, et cetera. I particularly enjoy breathplay and choking, using my hands and arms to squeeze their throats and necks very precisely, sometimes just to control, other times to very carefully cut off breath at a specific instance.

There are also many times I merely wish to be able to be able to k, or punish, or roughly handle a firm, lovely body without the complications that actual fucking often requires. In addition, for women who are aroused by being dominated or physically tormented, to be able to work them up into a fever pitch by making their bodies tingle, sting, and scream with sensation, and then not giving them a sexual release from all of that burgeoning tension . . . that can be a magnificent experience. As well, it is powerfully erotic to me to know that I have left vivid reminders of my attentions on the secret places beneath a womans clothing. Ones that only she knows about, but which remind her of what we did with every step, or cause her to suppress a moan or a gasp every time she sits down (particularly in the presence of others, since to acknowledge the sensation could possibly reveal something embarrassing to an astute onlooker).

I will be straightforward about the sort of person I seek. She must be above all else intelligent and open-minded. A wicked sense of humor would also be welcomed. Because I am extremely physically fit, I appreciate the same in those I am attracted to. However, she need not be a hard-bodied super-heroine, but being healthy and in quite good shape is a necessity.

Of essential importance, she must be at least inclined towards submissiveness, although NOT a pushover or weak-willed. An enjoyment of aggressive play, or even a streak of masochism, is a welcome trait. I especially enjoy women who have a strong will and the tendency to struggle, but who relish being ultimately overwhelmed and taken charge of by a dominant man.

Dominant, indeed, is what I am in all aspects. My personality has been described as completely an Alpha wolf-type however, I am thoughtful and discerning rather than overbearing. I am fiercely intelligent and have a very good (if warped) sense of humor. I am very creative professionally I am a writer and an artist. Additionally, I worked for many years as a male professional Dominant and kink educator, at places such as the old Chicago Illusions, at the Studio, and quite a few other excellent dungeons, so I am very skilled at imposing my will on those I play with, in ways that are quite pleasurable.

Physically, I am tall, muscular, and lean very masculine, attractive, with high cheekbones, a strong jaw-line, short dark brown hair and intense brown eyes that change from light to very dark depending on my mood. I am very fit, with several tattoos, and I look much younger than my age. Whatever sins I might have committed are for the most part unetched on my face, like Wildes Dorian Gray.

I am very powerful and have studied martial arts for many years, so I am expertly versed in controlling others with my own body. I also have exceptionally strong, sensitive hands, so it gives me great pleasure to grip, squeeze, and handle smooth, supple flesh. Incidentally, I have had much professional training in bodywork, something that I enjoy very much engaging in with my playmates after they have allowed me the pleasure and privilege of taking out my fiercer predilections upon them. I am capable of soothing tenderness as well as inflicting pain, and the two often go hand in hand where I am concernedno pun intended.

Enjoyment and distraction are the intent of my search here, and whomever I do this with will receive her fair share of those things.












 Dominant Male



 6' 0"

 175 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Submissive female

Switch Women

 Lives For:

 Fine Dining (Expert)

 Martial Arts (Expert)

 Weightlifting (Expert)

 Anal Play (Expert)

 Being Massaged (Expert)

 Hair Pulling (Expert)

 Massage (Giving) (Expert)

 Spanking (Expert)


 Horror Movies (Expert)

 Science Fiction (Expert)

 True Crime (Expert)

 Cooking (Expert)

 History (Expert)

 Intellectual Discourse (Expert)

 Nutrition (Expert)

 Psychology (Expert)

 Writing (Expert)

 Boxing (Expert)

 Kick Boxing (Expert)


 Art Galleries

 Movies (Expert)


 Musical Theater

 Renaissance Faires


 Walking (Expert)


 Body Worship (Expert)

 Bondage (Expert)

 Cane / Crop Discipline (Expert)


 Tickling (Expert)

 Alternative Medicine (Expert)




 Biology (Expert)

 Poetry (Expert)

 Alternative Music


 Eighties Music

 Folk Music


 Heavy Metal Music

 Industrial Music

 New Wave

 Nineties Music


 Punk Rock Music

 Rock Music

 Seventies Music


 Climbing (Expert)

 Running (Expert)

 Electrical Play (Beginner)


 Suspension Bondage (Beginner)



 Comedy Shows

 Meditation (Expert)

 Hard Limits:


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Journal Entries:
2/13/2014 1:14:05 PM

I have discovered the wonderful utility of the "Hide User" button and I am adoring the fuck out of it. I have gotten sick of seeing the same profiles every time I venture onto here, or seeing a new photo in my list and clicking on it only to discover that I had previously seen the profile attached to it and was not interested. Also, this allows me to remove from my notice anyone who is so inconsiderate as to not reply once a message has been sent, or even more once communication has been established and flakiness of non-response ensues. CollarMe did something very useful with this function; I now only see those new, interesting, or worthwhile users rather than the same clutter of profiles that do me no benefit to have to weed through yet again.

Most excellent!

5/12/2013 11:24:42 PM

A word of suggestion to those who might want to send me a message.

I like my pets quite a lot, more than most people. Because I am so fond of them, please refrain from telling me that you'd have sex with them if I told you to.

Really, don't do that. Ever.

9/10/2012 10:40:09 AM

So, apparently because I don't subscribe to being called by serious BDSM titles, I'm not a TWUU Dom. I must rectify that. 

Thus, I shall now be only referred to by my new title, “Ultimate Lord High Masterful Dominant, Sir Namaleas, the Far-Greater Than Magnificent”! 

Tremble before my awesomely Domly majesty, slaves!

6/16/2011 9:53:05 PM

When does Erwin Schrödinger have to change his cat's litterbox?

 He doesn't until he looks inside of it.

 Quantum mechanical humor!

12/15/2010 10:22:22 AM

A polite note of clarification to some of the dommes on here: Just because I visit your profile or message you doesn't mean I am looking to session with you, nor should you think to address me like you would your clients or subs. I don't do that to you, and I don't expect it in return; it's simply rude and uncouth. If I were inclined to ever submit to someone (and that's never going to happen, trust me), I know a number of magnificent domme ladies that I consider friends who would get that privilege long before I would offer it to someone I don't know from the Internet. 

On the other hand, if you respond to me as an equal or potential friend, you just might find that I am a very good person to know, because I adore my friends, dote on them, and happily do things to make their lives more pleasant. 

Something to keep in mind. Cheers!

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