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If Aldo in Home Improvement sees this, get back at the most recent email account where you heard from me. Your email went missing when updating to a new email account after last hearing from you.
My gfs and I were never into SM and do NOT have any interest in either.
We have visited this site on occasion to post after it was recommended as a site where we could find someone to help with the minutiae, such as tasks and errands when we did NOT have the time or interest and didnt have someone around to handle them.
We suspected all along that the recommendation may have been a prank but we figured that we had nothing to lose. We were always detailed and upfront regarding what we were specifically seeking from the posting in order to avoid time-wasting or confusion. We even implemented reimbursements and fines to discourage manipulation, abuse, and deception.
Unfortunately, we learned that there is a type here who thrives on chaos and doing the opposite of what is asked of him in a clear and upfront manner in such a posting as if the transparency is boring to him.
Such abusive, forced and manipulated, sadistic behaviors, the opposite of what would make logical or practical, common sense for any of us considering such a site on the slim, even less than one percent chance of finding someone who would genuinely find being supportive in a nonromantic, non-intimate, non-fetishist, nonphysical way intended to free up our time to do with as we please and presented and intended as mutually agreeable.
There is a type who meets such a deion with no games and no abuse where its genuinely suitable, practical and pleasant for us.
Unfortunately, the abusers made the process intended as pleasant and easy only, way too complicated and draining.
Being on the receiving end of such mental illness and abuse makes you paranoid and suffer from a type of PTSD where you question the intentions of anyone who offers you anything when the reason we were open to believe that kind, considerate, helpful men existed in the first place is having been around them all our lives.
It was never about kink or fetishism for us. It was mutually agreeable as stated knowing that we would never consider such a site for a relationships or dating and dont mess with people because we dont want anyone messing with us.
This ad is being posted many years after the fact. Once we associated this site with abusive and deceptive, time wasting individuals who failed to respect upfront content, we knew it would be impossible for us .
The site was updated but we do not really have any intention of using the site ever again other than being open to the contact mentioned above unless the crowd has changed to reflect mature, honest adults who can read a profile and honestly skip it IF they are unable to honor its content as written without drama or complications. We just wanted to make certain that any remaining profile(s) isare deactivated once the contact above reaches us or sufficient time has transpired for him to see this ad and make contact.
Wed like to add that whoever forced contact via manipulative, deceptive, and misleading intent, your unsolicited, harassing and abusive contact is viewed as criminal.
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