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Some people are born sub, others dom. Some learn from books, some learn and evolve by exploring what comes from within. I dont think this thing and roles can be faked. Yes some do for whatever their reasons are. There seem to be as many definitions of a relationship as there are of BDSM, so I will try some definition of myself which may be helpful. I am not a wimp male, underendowed or financialy needy. I am sucessful, driven, healthy, educated and yes sexual. However nothing is more erotic and necessary to me in a relationship than the concept of a man under the "power" and control of a woman. While this does entail physical acts the real power and submission is mental, brought about by situations scenes and sceanarios. More than anything to worship that one true godess, proving total devotion by serving her. Her power comes from his desire and her denial at times showing him his place, teaching him to be better, harnesing his will and desire for her end for her benefit. Maybe this is the hardest part to find, people who are otherwise compatable. Maybe beyond the broad brush strokes there is far more to do and discover. But whatever happens it is from a shared understanbding that does not have to be explained or acted out, its something that is almost inately understood. If youre wondering about the cuck part in my name, it comes from my belief that the sub is there to serve his mistress in every way, she owns him, and proof of this is his knowledge that he has no say in who she is with or where she goes. Having been on both sides of this coin I understand inately what both parties need.
lisag83
 
 Age: 27
 Batangas, Philippines