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Hetero Male Dominant, 28,  Upstate, New York
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I'm a 29 year old Top from upstate NY. Spanking was my gateway drug into BDSM as I found any references to it electrifying even from a young age. I became active in the scene 8 years ago when I went to college. I seek to build rewarding�friendships�and�relationships with the right people.� � When topping I enjoy spanking, caning, bondage, breast play, ass play (plugs, rectal temp taking, enemas, figging, anal). I'm firm but nurturing. My goal is to help others grow both within the scene and in their personal�lives. Look forward to speaking with confident, intelligent, open minded submissives and switches. � BDSM is an in the bedroom thing for me. Subtle acts of D/s in public are fun but I'm a private person and don't like airing my dirty laundry. � I'm a very capable individual in the real world. I work a full time white collar 9-5, have a degree, and am finishing another. I'm looking for other intelligent people who can hold up their end of a good conversation.�Due to my professional responsibilities I do not post face pictures online but will share some if requested. � I believe in equality outside the bedroom among all people and wish to be treated accordingly. My partners are treated with the same respect in turn. You don't have to be a dick to be a Dom.� � I prefer to talk at length to anyone prior to jumping into play. All my play is predicated on a foundation of mutual trust. � Looking forward to meeting some great people.










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 Dominant Male


 New York

 5' 7"






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women

 Lives For:



 Anal Play


 Breast Play

 Massage (Getting)

 TV Sports



 Ice Hockey



 Bar Hopping

 Coffee Shops

 Fine Dining






 Corner Time



 Housework Service


 Massage (Giving)

 Medical Play

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Denial



 Arcade Games

 Board Games

 Card Games

 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows



 Conservative Politics

 Intellectual Discourse

 Libertarian Politics

 Alternative Music

 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 Electronica / EDM


 Heavy Metal Music


 Nineties Music

 Punk Rock Music


 Rock Music







 Liberal Politics

 Curious About:


 Canes and Crops




 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Genital Punishment

 Local BDSM Community


 Mental Bondage

 Outdoor Bondage

 Sensory Deprivation


 Wax play


 Gas Masks


 Plastic Wrap

 Role Playing

 Country Music



 Masks (Wearing)

 Hard Limits:

 Electrical Play

 Knife Play

 Needle Play

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