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Hetero Male Dominant, 65,  Bergen, New Jersey
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Who I amI am primarily an erotic Daddy Dom with strict demeanor when required. Not 50 shades, but much rather the intensity of one-thousand shades of grey. I dont bring any bullshit to the table, nor should you. I always keep your best interests in mind, regardless of the interaction we may be involved in. I am risk aware, safe and sane dominant that focuses around RESPONSE-ABILITY I also like to focus on exploring a subsslaves potential and expanding their horizons in all aspects of their desires which often flows over to non-BDSM parts of their lives as well.

Essentially I am not a cookie cutter dominant, this translates to every relationship is unique and with that uniqueness there are needs and issues that have to be handled accordingly. I am supportive, authoritative, a disciplinarian that is structure based. This can be a very rewarding relationship, it can be to a girl, like a dad, exploring the little girl inside and stroking, healing that girl. Equally, it can be emotionalmental with elements of humiliation and punishment to those that I think require it.
I am not into playing with people casually (unless its an adjunct to an existing relationship). That means if I accept you as someone I am willing to look further into it is because I believe there is a chance for the longer term relationship. I need that.

My particulars I am disease, drama, drug bullshit free. I am RESPONSE-ABLE and risk aware, safe, sane, consenting dominant male. I am a creative lover and love sex. I am a responsive, potent and virile alpha male that can wear you out physically. With that said though, I am very discerning about who I sleep with, she has to be a special one. Im an evil and creative dominant, considered a free spirit, and continuously exploring and evolving and an enhancement to any girls sexuality.

What Im seeking A loyal girl, a free spirit that is willing to expand and explore her sexuality, her submission and her station in life with me. I particularly dont care if you are married, but if you are, either be in an open relationship or take the necessary precautions to not upset your own apple cart. I dont bring drama to the table, nor should you. I will add more to this when the time permits. If you are intrigued by anything, dont hesitate to ask.

So after reading several profiles, you sit there wondering if the one you seek truly is out there. Now if you dare, come to the dark side, be cared for unconditionally, be acknowledged. What I have, is pure and real, I am a well seasoned Master of the art of dominance, within the spectrum of risk-awareness, sane, safe, consensual love in all its s.

Ive always believed that the dynamic must play itself out in the particulars of the individuals involved. My dominance does not require a hackneyed or a limited scope of possibility.

I seek a partner who is free thinking, moved in the act of giving pleasure, who is devoted to sexual instruction, eager and receptive to my whims and instincts. And while I have a creative and sexually sadistic temperament it is governed by something consensual. It can be molded and sublimated into excruciating sensuality and eroticism.

Again it is conjuring -- through words, whispers, power, physicality, and toys of all sorts, restraints, encouragement, denial and psychological manipulation -- the full potential of anothers desire so I can mold it. I leave my partner wanting more.

Understanding that surrender can be an enormous challenge, it is one that I thrive on as a Dominant. Turning on their head, interpretations of expectation, reciprocity, equality and dignity is a demanding path.

It offers a hard earned grace and eventually a source of strength. Like any real challenge it can be frustrating, confusing, and after going down its road for awhile you may decide to change its course from your initial expectations, but as a path of discovery -- of course it is worth it. But if the desire for submission comes from an authentic place in you, if it is pointing you to live out an inescapable truth then reach out to me. I understand that the submissive in you can be a ritualized exaggeration, a part of you that one can exhume and feel such a truth. Allow me an opportunity to exhume that truth from you.

Surrender allows you to transgress normative expectation. It confers the freedom to experience something essential in you that has been lost or covered up.

Is it a wanton nature or a craving for a certain kind of pain to awaken the body and spirit? Is it the need for discipline and order? A craving to break your ego and find humility? The need to recapture a part of your childhood? I dont know you to know the answer to that but the journey through these questions is a perfectly legitimate, worthwhile one. I can guide and counsel you as I see fit as long as you are resolutely honest, transparent and truly seek to build this kind of understanding of yourself through obedience, respect, discretion and openness.

Ive learned in this life that the Gods of caprice, chaos and idiosyncrasy hold sway over most things including preference.

To torture an ice cream metaphor beyond recognition...while one may generally prefer chocolate to vanilla, a new brand of vanilla may well become ones favorite if bowled over by its texture, aftertaste and smoothness. A sophisticated hunger and palate is what I possess and what I look to indulge. I do not limit myself to height, fullness, hair color or other superficialities.

Opening ones self to the most compelling dimensions of ones sexuality, in this puritanical, intolerant, didactic culture of ours, is a great strength, not weakness. In contradictions lie discovery.

I believe life is too short not to entertain possibility. I can show you many places the road of surrender passes through. If you wish to experience a voice traversing the waters between pleasure and pain, desire and control, softly yet insistently in your earwrite to me again. I look forward to knowing you completely.











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1/4/2013 11:55:28 AM

Well that was interesting!  Just got contacted by a cuck wanting me to do his gf because he has a small cock.  When I pressed him for his ID/Age, (not name and address); he told me to get lost!  How mature, that's who you weed out the little ones people!  Ask them to photograph their ID with their address and name blocked out so you can see the person is of age that you're dealing with! Amazing!

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