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| I am a swm, 39, attractive and in good shape. I am a nice guy, caring and honest. I have been into spanking as far back as I can remember. I guess it's just the way I am wired. And something I really enjoy. I am just naturally dominant, and spanking for me is as much mental as it is physical. I really enjoy how a woman has trust in me enough, to submit and be put in a vulnerable position. Like over my knee.
I also understand that there are women who have as much of a need to be spanked, as I have a need to spank. I always want the experience to be enjoyable for both of us.
With that being said, no two people have the same needs. Some just need a light spanking. And for others it may be more of a need for discipline or punishment. I am respectful of each individual situation, and will spank at whatever level my partner is comfortable with. My goal is to take it to the limit, but not cross the line where it is not a pleasant experience. I also like to comfort after spanking, and allow the full emotional release that usually comes after a spanking.
So to sum it up, I am not a sadist in any way. I think a good spanking can have a cleansing effect, and promote positive change in a person. I am also aware that spanking and sex does not mix everyone. And I am ok with just a spanking, and no sexual contact. I really prefer to get to know someone before we get to the point of the spanking. So if you are just looking for a one night stand, I'm probably not the guy for you. Ultimately I would like to be in a relationship, that includes spanking.
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