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I'm a newbie in the scene having been introduced to the fun and exciting world of BDSM by a curvy woman I met in Los Angeles while I was visiting for a 4 month consulting gig. While my friend is a true submissive, I was a relative newbie who enjoyed learning how to properly dominate her both from a physical point of view (spanking, flogging, hair pulling) but also an emotional/mental point of view. A great resource I found to help me explore this part of my sexuality was a book called Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission. Unfortunately, 2400 miles separate us, even though text messages/e-mails keep us connected. I am hoping to find another open minded person (people) to connect with in a similar way. Four years ago I had a near death experience and ever since I decided to live a more exciting life and explore my sexuality. Some people turn to religion and god after that kind of experience....I went in (ahem) another direction. I am open minded, non-judgemental and my politics lean left. I am a generous man, I'm respectful of limits and I cannot have a good time unless my partner has a good time as well. I tend to be physically attracted to curvy women, but I'm more attracted to intelligent women.