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NJDevilish

I would like nothing more then to put a picture of myself on my profile, however I have a job in which is very public. And I am a very, very private person. If you require a picture of me, I have no issue with that whatsoever. I will show it to you privately. I am a 47 year old single white male that has something that nobody I've ever met has and that is the ability to be 100% judgement free. I know people say they are but they are full of crap. I have no problem giving them the "You're full of crap" test. I believe 100% that if you like it, no matter how twisted it may be to one person or another, you should enjoy it. Why the heck not. Open minded I believe is the foundation of BDSM. We are in a lifestyle (those of use that aren't fakes) that should build on the notion of being open minded. There are many things within the lifestyle that I don't enjoy or believe I would enjoy but who is it for me to say that it's bad or sick or over the top. That being said, I 100% believe we must follow the rules of being within the boundaries of human beings. Underage is a deal breaker. Force without consent is a deal breaker. Come on people we are better then that. We're animals for sure and some should be caged (lol) but we're semi advanced aren't we? I started in the lifestyle when I was 25. I was introduced by a submissive female and I've tired, experimented, enjoyed and/or hated just about everything you can imagine. A few things I haven't done. I have some personal boundaries. But beyond that, I consider myself very very advanced. Expert level. The one thing to know about me is that I like what you like. My turn on is really what your turn on is. Sure I have a group of things that really gets me going. But if you don't like it, well then I don't like it if we are in a session together. I seek nothing here. i've found when you look you will not find. I have no expectations to find the "one". Friends, chat friends, people to learn from or better to teach is the highest level of expectation I have. If more happens great, but I lead a very active, very adventurous lifestyle and do not require this 94% fakes website to set me free. I come here for the 5% I might learn from or get into a great conversation with. The other 1%, well I like finding out about people from another planets. LOL.
Eternal
 
 Age: 23
 Tulsa area, Oklahoma