Do as I say BUT Not as I do?

Ive met a about 7 dominants on this site.  In that group only three were as serious about meeting a submissive as they say in their profile.  All three were definately worth the effort and now have my respect!  The rest talk the talk BUT dont walk the walk (do as they say they are going to do). BUT, I wont say any names, cause unlike some, I dont bash people for sport!  Of the remaining four, two were married and cheating on their husbands. One was a no-show (on two occasions). The fourth would set a time and ask for a confirmation but never respond or answer the phone so I could confirm. 

So my question is?  Why do these so-called dominants complain about submissives doing this to them, since they clearly do it to others so freely?  

Its like the word RESPECT..... You have to give it to get it, and it IS a two way street.  Sorta like trust, Its earned not given! 

Sorry for the rambling but just a few thoughts

A good friend of mine, one whom I hold dear to heart has decided to live 24/7 as a female.  She has decided to stop tip toeing around the subject and tell everyone that she is who she is and that when she is out and about, she is a female.  No more labels, or terminology anymore.  She is a female now. 

I know so many people who have gone through the transitional phase from a man to woman.  Many have gone the distance through criticism, adversity, hatred and disgust.  Although at the end of the day you have to be true to yourself.  I think its awesome that she has embraced her gender and is telling everyone to accept it or dont bother her anymore. I wish her the best of luck and success and future happiness!

Dominant Men?

I find it so very curious how the emails that I get from Dominant men, seem to always start out like "Hey Fuck Toy", "I own you now", or my favorite which I got just recently which said, "Howd you like to get on your knees and worship my cock"!  Seriously!?!

I dont understand or appreciate how they just start a dialogue (like Im their new property), by giving me orders and showing me their cocks. Does this get a response?  From me, it wont get anything, except a deletion and the future ignore from all future emails.

Seriously get a life!

 Yet Dominant/Switch females and transexuals, always start out curious with a few questions that are direct yet respectful.  I dont get the holier then thou, because those who are curious about me, want to get to know me first.  Then procede after a foundation has been laid out.

I had a real Enjoyable time with Mistress Midian (The Playroom) Wed Night.  Extrememly knowlegable and dedicated to her craft.  Limits werent pushed but I got a real sense of trust for her as a Dominant Female.  The next time we meet I have faith in her to push my limits further and hopefully she will try new things to expand my horizons in being a better submissive. 

Just connected with someone I havent seen since I lived in San Diego county.  So good to hear from friends of days past.