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	Looking for conversation with a submissive female. It all starts from there. Say hello.

2/6/2014 5:39:47 AM

Subs initially take a private journey because they sense the risks in allowing themselves to become vulnerable while fantasizing about the loss of control. This is for those women who have a tender, gentle, vulnerable side that are sincerely seeking a ds relationship. it will often reveal underlying traumas and issues. BDSM is not a replacement for therapy. If you have had issues with every man in your life the problem is probably you. If you make bad choices in your vanilla life this will really be a problem for you in ds. You have to know yourself. Men know if you do or not. You are not going to be able to walk into this type of relationship dynamic with a closed mind. It takes a strong mind to overcome the taboos, conditioned responses, and beliefs.

2/5/2014 8:29:04 AM

Be open and honest in your communication. Don't expect him to drag things out of you. If you don't tell him what you need, he will not know all the time. If you do not he can never take care of you. Be available. Trust me, you'll win big on this one. You get most of the attention. Make sure he gets some of that. Enjoy him.

4/5/2013 4:11:48 AM

Some D/S truths IMO: DS won't fix you. If you consider yourself a "gift" you demean yourself. Communication is key - by everyone involved. If you are only doing what you want you're not sub. You cannot exchange submission for love. If he can't communicate he's not a dom. Vanilla is hard. This is harder. If you continue to choose bad partners your choices are the problem. Poly sounds good but not many people can pull it off. If he or she is continuously talking to others he or she is looking to replace you. Get out of your clothes means get out of your fucking clothes. If you manipulate your dom he's not a dom and everyone around you knows it. If you're not comfortable communicate that. If you don't suck his cock someone else is going to. If everyone in the local groups has seen you naked you're no use to a Master.

3/13/2013 4:41:23 AM

If you have a profile that takes 4 hours to read i wouldn't be interested. Just do the basics and communication will do the rest.

10/5/2012 5:55:28 AM

We travel, some of us forever, to seek other states, other lives, other souls.
Anais Nin

7/29/2012 9:35:03 AM

I think many doms don't realize what they do and how they leave people. What you do on the back end is as important as the front end. How you leave someone matters. The chase is fun but aftercare is the most important thing of all. Once you touch a sub you are responsible for her aftercare - forever. It's a huge responsibility. Know that before you tough her.

7/24/2012 7:38:53 AM

Women want to be understood. They want someone to "get " them. Most men are lazy. They go through the motions. They want to fuck you without earning the right to. That's why they never call after they fuck you.

7/24/2012 7:13:44 AM

It's easy to take your clothes off and have sex. People do it all the time. Open your heart, mind and soul to someone, exposing your dreams, thoughts, deepest desires.....that is being naked.