Single totally unattached Sensual woman seeks Sensual Dom I am into Mental, Sensual BDSM and all that goes with it. I an not into pain, or married/attached men. NOT INTERESTED IN ONLINE FANTASY With in NC only.

• Do not friend me out of the blue, it is earned not assumed and if you write to me, do it in a intelligent manor and be polite I'm not a/your slave, sub, Bitch, Concubine, street walking whore or anything else of the sort. This is not high school.

  Why am I "Unsure"? I hate labels and do not like being categorized as I am different things to different ppl. One has to place me where it fits for them. I am not one to think or to live in the box, I am the one who takes the box and turns it into Origami Art.

  ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ "When you are steadfast in your abstention of thoughts of harm directed toward yourself and others, all living creatures will cease to feel fear in your presence." — Patanjali
  • Your eyes and smile tell me more than you could ever know. I HATE DICK PICS!
  • I am Sensual, erotic and passionate at times to a fault
  • I am an Herbalist
  • I am a Pantheist
  • I am a student of Wicca
  • I am a Spiritual Feminists.
  • I am a collection of all that is marked here. Not one single thing defines me.
  • Platonic fun, friendship and comradery are more than welcome and desired!
  • I AM MONOGAMOUS with the one I choose to be with. I am not interested in anyone whom is attached in any way shape or form.
  • To be continued.......

  I can offer my submission, love, devotion & body to a Gentle, Sensuous, Loving Dominant man who captures my heart, mind, body and soul that builds deep trust with me. I look to support and nourish a man who can forge a deep connection on all levels - not just sex/play. I take things slow because I want to build emotional intimacy & that takes time. I do not rush the physical intimacy. The right Dom totally understand this and will welcome the opportunity to prove himself respectable and trustworthy.

  I want to "let go" and indulge and be part of that beautiful symbiosis of Dom & sub together that takes a relationship to new levels. The only way I can do that is to be with a Dom who will take my hand from start to finish and build the trust that will allow me to feel emotionally safe enough to be vulnerable on all levels. It is not something that can be just turned off on command.

  With that said, the one thing that absolutely must be there is chemistry. It's not enough that you are Dom & I am sub. I want to be in love, not just "have a Dom." I can't devote myself to someone unless I am crazy about them & they are crazy about me with unwavering trust. I see many subs rush into so-called "relationships" that mostly involve just play, sex and some meaningless "pillow talk" that then fall apart soon after they start because there's no real emotional foundation or connection. I MUST HAVE THAT CONNECTION! That's why I take it slow.

  I have always had an insatiable hunger for attractive, confident, sexy, stable, SINGLE CAUCASIAN men, a professional 9-5 kind of guy to a roughneck country boy or somewhere in between. You would not be on serious psych meds or have a history of mental illness as well as having a desire for women of my stature. Built to be gentle and loving as well as having the ability to toss me around like a rag doll when or if the occasion calls for it. I will give respect if I am shown respect and basic human respect is a must have. The ability to converse/communicate with a woman, not just think you do is a huge plus! Intelligence comes in many forms and I find it sexy as hell!!!