Experienced dominant recently relocated to NC. Looking for a discreet submissive to enjoy. Yes that means I am married, wife thinks BDSM is wierd and wants nothing to do with it and has said find it on my own and don't bother her with it.
If you find that wrong or distasteful then don't respond. But there is no drama involved.
Especially interested in finding someone with little experience to help find new things they will enjoy.
I am a clean, college educated, professional male who expects no drugs, no diseases and no drama. I am not looking for a supermodel or any particular race or weight. Any woman is sexy if she thinks she is sexy.
I've been part of several groups in different cities, enjoy delivering pain but know when enough is enough. Enjoy humiliation and know when to give a kiss and a hug when it's all done and that moment where a woman needs reassurance.
I want a woman who enjoys being controlled, given tasks both sexual and non-sexual just to remind her she's owned. One who needs to be owned, but has their own life as well.
Being a man I am also open to just casual play where both parties just get what they need from the interaction. I will not just meet at a hotel before meeting someplace public however, both for your safety and my own.
I feel a Dominant should leave any woman they are with better than they found them. Anything else is a lack of responsibility on both parts, a woman should want to improve herself, and a man should want to help that.
