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Dominant male, looking for my "50s Housewife" (okay, 50s Sub/Slave)
Due to my career, (military) I have to keep a fairly low profile on "adult" forums, as the powers that be do not react well to people with my job being much other than a family man or a vanilla womanizer.
So basically any D/s relationship I would have needs to stay more or less in the bedroom/behind closed doors for the non-passable-as-vanilla parts. As a result, I'm familiar and understand if there are any subs out there that need to keep it on the sly for family/work/career/school reasons. I wish things could be more "open" than that, but I chose to serve the nation, so I have to accept the restrictions on my public behavior. Now at home, game on!
As to any future relationships of a D-S nature, here is my take on how I would like things to work. I have been told that I am a natural dominant type, but I'm not of the camp that you need to call me "sir" "master" "lord" or whatever in public. If you want to call me that of your own accord in private, I don't really care, it's more important that my natural tendency to be in charge jives with your desire to be submissive.
I would view the idea relationship as one where people who causally know me think I am just with a quiet/meek but normal girl who maybe has a kinky streak in the bedroom. If it ever progressed past that, that will be addressed as time goes on.
I view being dominant as a facet of my personality, not all I am. I'm also a gearhead, geek, and motorcyclist.
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