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Right up front i am NOT a Pro i just know what i am doing! I dont want your money, just your obediance and ass over my bench, i am comfadent, agressive, and well trained in BDSM.. i dont need a house maid or my car washed.
I am a very sexy 49yo Pansexual BBW Mistress, self assured, confident and know what i am doing, i have been in the lifestyle over 8 years now and have not been without a submissive/masochist since, i am married and he knows i have lover's and sub's, he is also in the lifestyle and has his own subbie, we have a wonderful open relation and a beautiful open poly (polyamorus) household, i am not seeking to replace my hubby.
I love control in and out of the bedroom, this don't mean i am a control freak, i am not looking for someone to grovel at my feet and be kicked around, but there are moments when it's important to me that my subs can listen and obey me when asked and i demand respect and respect is returned.
My Ideal Person: I am seeking a new long term relation to add to my poly family, someone dedicated to making a relation work, someone who can stay open and honest, who wants a Mistress in there life and the joys that it can bring!
i need a man who can perform in bed, who is up for any sexual task i ask of him, who is healthy, who has a nice manhood and knows how to use it, who is a nymph, who loves sex, but who also loves the aspect of BDSM and pain, if you enjoy some CBT (cock and ball torcher) thats a huge plus as well i am not talking about the major shoe stomping or kicking you see in porn thats not what i am into, i would like a man who is good looking, healthy, who takes care of himself, you don't have to be perfect, but i am tired of men who dont take care of themselves who have really poor health, no labido, or can't get it up, they come to me broken and expect me to fix them, i am a Mistress with a high labio i love sexi have needs to and i have no problem fulfilling yours, but mine need to be met as well, but i need a man who wants a women who's in control, who's also caring loving and kind, who respects her sub and loves them, i don't need or want a doormat, i don't need a maid or a pet, i don't need my car washed or your money, i just want your ass bend over my bench, if you enjoy recieving anal sex thats a huge turn on for me i love ass play!
i love oral sex giving and recieving, i do ask that my subs be shaven at least most of there body hair, i am ok if your arm and lower legs are left hairy but its reallly hard to do some forms of BDSM when your hairy it interfears with the gear like eletroplay or sensation play it gets cought in the gear or gets burt off and its a issue... i also find it to be extremely sexy to run my hands over smooth skin rather then hairy skin!!!
i would like to find a man who needs a women in control in his life, but is perfectly ok at moments when things slow down with me to need to just relax and sink into a pair of strong arms and watch tv and be held for a while and cuddle and not feel i am switching, but i am just human and need some down time cause i am still a women who needs to feel love as well...
i am a fairly level headed women, i dont believe in drama, or yelling, i don't fight or argue, i truely believe jealousy is a bad emotion that just distroyes relations if not worked through properly and discused.
i don't believe in rehashing the past it just takes us in circles and works nothing out and everyone ends up feeling bad for no reason.
I am heavy into CBT, teasing, using a whip, nipple torcher, mild biting, face sitting, clips and clamps, ass play, role-play, paddles, crops, canes, floggers, sensation play, pee play, strapon's, erotic hypnosis and bondage,
i am also into at times: electro play, wax play, knife play, needle play.
so to sume it all up, i am seekingsomeone who can take an order and follow through with it, i am seeking a submissive who's happy in life, who's seeking a long term loving relation with a Sadistic Mistress and some intense pain added to it, you need to be able to travel to me and live within 75 miles.
You MUST be non-jealous, able to SHARE, and honest, open to explore new adventures and sexual experiences within the BDSM realm and out.
You need to be able to take some pain, i am not seeking a sissy la la or a newbie, if all's you enjoy is flogging and sensation play i am NOT the Mistress for you.
I am seeking someone who is emotionally and mental stable, we all have our up's and down's in life and that's ok, but i am not here to fix you or your past issues, so if you have major baggage to workout, please don't contact me, i am not a shrink, i am a Mistress.
You need to be drug free and STD free, you will be asked to get tested for STD's and show the result's to me, we practise only safe sex in my household and you will be expected to use a condom during intercourse, no fluid exchange tell i have proof your std free no exceptions.
i am ok if you enjoy drinking socially at times if it's not to get plastered. if you are a smoker it's ok if it's done respectfully outside.
If you are married, have a spouse or lover, this is fine, but she/he has to know your dating me no exception's, i will not tolerate cheating or dishonesty and will expect to meet them to make sure all is in the open.
if you feel we are a 90% match then contact me! what i have posted here is mostly written in stone and i will not sway on most of my demand,s for what i seek in a masochist, anything beyond what's written here can be discussed and details worked out so we both can come to term's to make a good relation work, this includes limit's and exploring them! MzMela
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Here it is sept again and the last BTN party of the year, being the host of the btn is alot of fun and really fullfilling meeting all the new folks and hanging with the regulars!
but this weekend my subs are out of town and this 3 day weekend is going to be a bit boring with no sexy maso to torcher whaaaa! damn a girl has needs you know!
my back up date bowed out due to personal reasons and there will be lots of people here to hang with and enjoy the weekend with, but you know its just not the same when you dont have someone at your side to tease torcher and fuck there brains out!
anyway i am sure i will have a great time non the less cause i tend to make my own fun!
i hope all you folks have a great weekend as well! MzMela |
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i have recently updated my profile and its pics a bit!
so far my summer has been awsume! have made many new friends and enjoyed there company! some from here and a few other sites. i really hate weeding through the fakes and the pretenders on these sites, people who say there one things, but turn out to be nothing like they said or stand you up, or make a date and cancel it the day before and you never hear back from them again.
but then there the few that are who they say they are! nd there the ones that make my summer!
Then theres the ones making up a dozen profiles a day in here let them set for months so they look like they been here a while just to pretend there someone else just so you chat them up take them through the interviews just so they can get there kicks, there rocks off and masterbate, because there to chicken to step out into the real world and the lifestyle the way the rest of us are.
ya know i am all for fetishes real ones and if pretending your interested as a sub just to play other people is your thing fine, but its not mine, so please dont waste my time or yours, no i will not phone you, so dont even ask.
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Hello everyone! summer is now coming to a end and it saddens me, its been a wonderful summer and i have really enjoyed myself and the company of my subs....
i am now seeking a new masochist between the ages of 30 and 45yo to add to my family of subs, so if you are one, please read my profile completely and see if you fit what i am seeking!
hope to hear from some of you local masochist hugs to all on Collarme! MzMela |
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hey hey people! just thought i would say hi!
its been a busy summer and i am enjoying life to its fullest!
my summer bdsm parties have been going great so far and i been beating the heat relaxing in the pool each day!
i hope all of you are having a great summer to! MzMela
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Hello beautiful people of collarme! lifes treating me well, i hope its doing the same for you!
i have reopened my search for another subbie to add to my little family of subs, so if your local to the sacramento area or northern of it are a masochist and enjoy bisexual fun please feel free to send me a message! |
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last week was a very special experience in my life i wont go into alot of detail, because it's not something i wish to make public, but OMG! my world was rocked and i look forward to another experience in the future very close to last weeks! you rock mudd baby!
this weekend i am spending it with one of my other subs stephie a very cute tranny, warm sensual, shy! alot of fun to control and use! i hope your all having as much fun in life as i am warm hugs! MzMela |
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wow! another fabulous weekend! thanks to my subbies, life just keeps getting better and better! i hope all of you reading this on collarme have a wonderful Thanks Giving! Happy Turkey Day! |
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i just had a wonderful weekend, it couldnt of gone any better! good friends, good conversation, great scene inflicting pain on one of my cute subs and seeing him growl in pain mmmm! the attention and the fun later that evening at his place was more then expected, i took what i wanted and was given beyond what i asked for! alls i can say is what a great fucking weekend! my warmest hugs to my mmmmudd! you fucking rock baby! |
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LMAO! i had a odd date yesterday and thought i would post something about it here! since it was with a member i met from this site, first off to anyone reading this who is interested in meeting me read my profile completely, i am real, i am who i say i am, no bullsh*t, second dont lie to me and tell me your a pain slut, when in fact your a newbie to the lifestyle, if you havnt been beaten before say so dont bullsh*t me! third off and i have stated this before if alls you want is your ass f*cked move on, i dont mind ass play and its a turn on for me, but i am Domme not your ass slave......
with that said you can imagine what my date was like some ex-milatary man whinning he needed his ass f*cked after about 3 hours of hearing this i ordered him on the cross for a good beating first, then he would get his ass f*cked and he acted like he was going to get on the cross and instead ran and jumped in his truck and drove off like a scared rabbit.... damn sissy la la's lmao!!!!! next!
dose anyone on this site local to me truely know what BDSM and the lifestyle is about? this boi kept asking me for protocal while we were trying to relax in the pool lol! well we live and we learn dont we! that was a wasted month!
yeah ok i am venting, but you know people if you dont know what your getting into or asking for maybe you shouldnt pick someone like me who is more then willing to go there and i dont mess around, if i say you need to be a pain slut and into beatings i mean it!!!!!!! |
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i am seeking new subs again, so dont be shy guys, bimales or t-girls perferred, attractive, under 50 yo and into pain, i enjoy inflicking pain, i will respect your limits , but seeing you in pain makes me wet! hit me up guys and gals lets talk and see if we can get something started! MzMela |
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Just wanted to say hi! things in my life are really coming together, my gear i make is selling well and i am now opening up my own website to so sell my new items and inventions for the lifestyle, lifes very gooooood! |
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good day all! i been practising my double flogging and i am getting much better at my aim *smile* thats a good thing for you subbies hee hee! so i almost have the 4 count down pat, this steps my abilities up a bit, not to many women in sacramento area can do it let alone want to, not sure why that is, personaly i feel if it improves my abilities as a Domme! why the hell not. |
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Good day all! i am seeking a date for feb 2, 2008 for a private play party, i am seeking a male subbie into pain, easy on the eyes and not heavy set, perferably between the ages of 30 and 50 yo, i am not seeking sex, though if we hit it off and your bisexual i may invite you to other more private parties i have in the future, if you are std free, you need to live in sacramanto area or anywhere north of it, look me up and lets talk, please share your pic with me! thank you! MzMela |
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i adore the fact so many of you are interested in knowing me, but please take the time to send me your photo and tell me a little about yourself, telling me you just love my naked pics isnt going to hold my interest, i know i am a sexy bbw guys/gals and its nice many of you agree! but fill out your profile and send me a pic so i have a idea of what you are like and guys cock pics are welcome, but only if it shows your face and you are local to me, your cock isnt important to me, whats important is you as a person! so with that said *smile* please take a moment and share your photo, if you want me to respond! thanks! |
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Today is a good day i woke up and started working on some new gear and i am very pleased as to how they turned out, dessage whip and a very nasty crop, who wants to be my test subject and help me try them out? i live in the middle of nowhere, no one will hear your screams, no one will care! are you subbie enough to dare? i know a couple of you on here would, have and will! *smile* hugs! |
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good day to all who are reading this! today was a odd day for me, it was pieceful enough, but i felt very lonely almost to pieceful, i need to be doing things or i get restless, to stay creative and active or i get hella bored! but it was to darn cold to do anything! so i read a good book by Anne Rice and stayed under the blankets most of the day, thinking of evil little things to do to my subbies on our next meet *smile* |
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