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| The power a woman has over a man is undeniable... and within the realm of that power is a sweet and loving place a man can safely allow himself to express his innermost needs without fear of rejection or ridicule.... sadly most women never understand this and most men never learn how to express their needs in a way that encourages such a positive connection. Women should reach out gladly with their power to touch, encourage, and guide a man to that place ... and it doesn't take a whip or chains to get there, just a man with a brave heart and a willing mind...
I have had the great luck to meet and talk to many intelligent, brave men who understand this dynamic and want to share their thoughts or are searching and would like to discuss ways to grow towards a fulfilled and happy life...those who see beyond the sex to the mental and emotional component of all this ... who understand that without addressing those inner thoughts there is no growth, and you will never reach your full potential... I have enjoyed being part of their journey, helping them to find the lost part of themselves so that they reach a new level of awareness.
Do understand that I am not seeking anyone to add to my life. I enjoy new friends and will gladly answer an email and will chat if I have time available, but that is all.
Please also read my journal entries, they contain additional ideas and thoughts ... many inspired from my discussions with others like you ...
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Please read my updated profile carefully. Good luck to all of you in your search. |
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Men come to me, afraid to fail, wanting me to direct them in every action so that they do not make a mistake. But I do not direct them; rather, I offer them freedom from that fear. Freedom to act from their hearts, speak from their hearts, and not be judged. I offer them acceptance, and in that acceptance, peace. |
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"I will not die an unlived life. I will not live in fear of falling or catching fire. I choose to inhabit my days, to allow my living to open me, to make me less afraid, more accessible, to loosen my heart until it becomes a wing, a torch, a promise. I choose to risk my significance; to live so that which comes to me as seed goes to the next as blossom and that which comes to me as blossom, goes on as fruit."
-Dawna Markova |
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Quite often, in this “lifestyle” we have as part of our souls, people quote pat phrases and descriptions. But when the time comes to really define what a Domme is, what she does for the sub, how do you describe it? For me, dominance requires someone with a broader vision, a deeper insight, a stronger sense of purpose and will. Someone who will see what others don't see, look beyond the surface of a person, find a path for that person, and help him follow it. It requires knowing when to say no, and when to say yes. And when to say, "try this, even if you think you might fail, because I am here with you and together we can do this." |
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Keep your hearts open to possibilities.. and remember that what you seek might be right there in front of you. Our biggest mistake is in limiting our view so that we only see things from one perspective. |
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True submission is a wonderful, precious
gift; a gift of the soul. It must exist in the heart and mind even more than in the body, for the physical signs of submission, be it service or sexual exchange of power, mean nothing without a connection to the heart and mind. It is something that should neither be given lightly or taken without consideration. It is made wonderful by the sheer fact that to give it is perhaps the most difficult thing a submissive does but once given it frees him to be true to himself in way he has never experienced. A weight is lifted; a burden shared. No longer alone, he can embrace the counterpart to himself, the woman who has the strength to take that gift and protect it, guard it, and nurture it as she would a child, taking pride and joy in his accomplishments and growth. |
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Tease and seduction.. a dance between two people that combines lust, anticipation, craving, desire, denial all into one amazing flow of energy. |
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Fantasy vs. reality? When the heart is wanting the mind compensates with dreams. It fills the void, creates intense moments of imagination to satisfy that need. The dilemma is that we become fixated on that intense moment and chance missing the more subtle but real and special connections that can fill the void forever because the intense overshadows the subtle. So the question is ... do we focus on the intense moments and chance never finding the deep satisfaction or look for the deep satisfaction and still have the possibilities for the intense moments with someone who has connected with us on a deeper level first.. the choice is clear |
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My reward is to see in your eyes the freedom of spirit when you know you don’t have to worry … you can be you and know that your soul can show its true colors … There is a feeling that describes "exquisite"....it is almost tangible it is so intense … that is the what I feel when I see submission ... see that release … it is so beautiful ... |
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To have a shoulder to lay your
head on, to know no matter what you may be corrected but loved, to know that there is someone there who will guide you to the right choices once you admit the woman can do that... isn't it such a relief? ... to just say .. I KNOW you can do this better so do it ... to be free ... to have for even a few moments that wonderful place of safety and acceptance... |
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It is a Domme's responsibility to learn a submissives thoughts, desires, fears, limits... then take those things and find a way to help the submissive be the best he can be ... to push him, stretch him, encourage him to grow beyond what he thought possible ... to give him the gift of positive growth ... to help him find complete happiness in his life... |
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what is submission? willingness to share the deepest part of yourself. eagerness to find places even deeper within you than you ever knew existed. the desire to share that gift with someone who can guide you with caring to those new places. The beauty of a submissive is sweet, exquisite and fragile... to be cherished, protected, honored... |
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The power of a touch, sometimes soft and reassuring, sometimes harsh reality... it might say I am yours or does it say YOU are MINE... to feel my hand firmly upon you... letting you know I am there to guide you and protect you... what power in that touch... |
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| Age: 38 |
| Madison,
Wisconsin |
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