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Guys if I want to speak to you I will contact you is this asking for to much? please respect this someone who is truly in the lifestyle will understand this?

Hello I am Amanda. Yes I am a Mistress and I have been in this lifestyle for 25+ years.? So yes I earned the title I carry.? Yes there was a lifestyle before the internet. I take this lifestyle very serious and don?t like how some see it as a game. ??Yes I understand to some it is a bedroom game and I respect that? I ask that you respect my views as well. So now if you are one who feels the void deep within to the point it is painful.? You know your calling is to surrender and be owned then drop me a line. My views on slavery are old school?or as some prefer Old Guard.? I respect the one who answers that painful calling to serve and feel it is a duty of a Mistress or Master to help the slave grow and learn about who and what they are. Some of you will read this and roll your eyes (god knows I know I do that enough from reading some of the profiles here) Some of you will just look at the picture and have no clue that there are even words in my profile. But some of you will read it and feel something,? you will have that feeling someone? acutally understands what it is you are feeling.? ?Those of you drop me a line and lets talk. And if you want to drop me a line and ask a question or just chat?please do all I ask if that you be respectful I look forward to talking to you very soon Mistress Amanda










 Dominant Female


 5' 11"






Actively Seeking:

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Journal Entries:
11/1/2015 5:14:42 PM

What are the best adjectives for
Femdom, worthy of the name?

Being a woman above all
Loving and respectful toward her subject
The natural sense of authority
Understanding and listening
Share their desires and pleasures
Being unpredictable, surprising and mysterious
Able to forgive as much as crack
Have a lot of imagination
Never bend or become indifferent
And particularly enjoy her well-being and communicate

What should never do?

Rely on some stupid shots
Rely on the rhetoric of fantasy lovers
Not develop and instead to be discovered
Do not tease a submissive into believing bells and whistles
Never give up after a disappointment (there will always be)
Never use the terms: dressages, tests etc ...
Not consider a subject such as an animal or less than nothing
Consider such a relationship as a game
be vulgar
Be influenced by anyone or anything.

just be a True One Mistress

7/17/2015 12:41:02 AM
SEMPER Fi Marines!!! Know we have four more Marines guarding Heaven's Gate. Please take a moment and thank not only the four we lost on Thursday But for also for all the ones who have in the past. If not for them we would not have the freedom to discover and explore our chosen lifestyle. And when you see one in uniform be sure to thank them for the sacrifice they are making for our freedom.

7/12/2015 6:10:35 PM
Ok new one Has anyone noticed when you don't do as a so called slave or sub demands. Yea a sub demanding right off the bat, who has no pic decides that your a guy? No wonder this lifestyle is in such sad shape. And then to make it even better. They block you. Got to love it lol

7/9/2015 9:07:01 PM
Ok on my soap box again!!!
Girls (and I use that term loosely) is it really so hard to put some words into your profile?
I know it takes a bit of effort and to use a bit of that gray matter (brian cells) but please put forth a bit of effort I did and I don't have to try and impress you.

the other thing that is really funny is when you bust someone how they either vanish or block I mean really?


that is all

3/17/2015 9:53:27 AM
Happy St. Patrick's day to all And to my Irish friend Dekeon

3/2/2015 11:19:41 AM
Well now that we are starting our 3rd month in to the new year and I got a new soap box I figure I would break it in.  Not like anyone reads these.

Ok todays Rant is about so called Slaves and subs.  

those of you who read 50 shades of gray. or worse yet those who didn't read it and waited for the movie (you know who you are you are out there admit it.)

do you know what 50 shades and the DaVinci code have in common?  ITS A NOVEL!!!!

Please if you really want to learn about the lifestyle and open your mind and your ears and shut your mouths.  Really I have meet so many who have been on the planet less time than I have been in the lifestyle.  I have been in it over 25 years and you know what I am still learning and I learn something every day and I do that by listening.  

those of you who know me know I have never said you were wrong about what your views are and I do listen to them.  so girls if your new ask good questions and listen to the answer.  This lifestyle for many of us is just that a lifestyle.  and some of us truly understand we did not choose this life it choose us
some of you really understand that 
have a lovely day

9/29/2013 3:40:11 PM

I read the profile slavewannabekim and she has this in it

now I think all of you should understand this is exactly as those of us who have been in the lifestyle for some time view it


A slave:


A person owned by another -- without rights, without choices, without the ability to drive their own lives and directions. A person whose very existence is at the whim and desire of another. Property. Cherished and loved, but still given over to another to make all decisions for this person. The slave makes one choice, and one choice only. To become a slave. After that, they accept, without question, every decision the dominant makes. The only out is if the Owner tires of or otherwise decides to release the slave back into the wild. There is no negotiation after the initial guidelines have been set up, and the slave must accept everything the dominant decrees. Including being traded or accepting new people into their lives.




A submissive:


One who gives over their own personal power and control to another voluntarily. One who accepts the guidance of a dominant and gives the right of their own decisions/directions/growth to another in most aspects of their relationship. An exchange of power occurs, with both the submissive and the dominant giving equally of their time and emotions. A choice, or gift, that can be withdrawn at any time by either the dominant or the submissive. A submissive has many rights. Including: the right to be respected; the right to negotiate; the right to have levels of control over aspects mutually agreed upon in everyday life; the right to say no; the right to feel equal as a person.



7/18/2013 9:07:52 AM

ok on the soap box again 


Now I logged in this morning and right off the bat as usual I open the "Who's Viewing Me?"

and once again I have at least 5 guys who are looking at me and wish to expose themselves to me as well.  Now I mean really has the lifestyle I have been in for the better part of 25 years come down to men who think flashing me will get me all excited and I will just go crazy and want them.  

to those guys who think that,  NOT HAPPENING!!!  all you are doing is showing me you have no class and are a total waste of my time for me even opening up my who's viewing me section. 

Now ladies yes you have lovely bodies but why not make someone put forth some effort before you show everything off?  Seriously have a bit of self respect.  

so really lets think before we just show the world everything.  and for those of you who think this lifestyle is all about sex and nothing else well then please just don't bother to look me up and for those of you who read this and get upset well then that alone tells you we will have nothing to discuss.

to many of us this is a choosen lifestyle not a bedroom game.  So please respect yourself the lifestyle and me.

anyone who doesn't. well..............

4/9/2013 9:56:44 AM

Hello every one

well not to disappoint but I am not getting on my soap box once again 

this is an apology to those of you who I have been talking too.

I discovered something amazing on my last business trip.

a laptop computer does not enjoy wine as much as I do.  yes I did one of those stupid things and spilled wine on my keyboard and the damn thing died on me.

so for those of you who thought I bailed or vanished it was not the case.

my laptop just cannot hold its wine as well as it's Mistress can

so i should be back and around in the coming days 

if you would like just drop me a line and we will be in touch  (we= you and I talking)



Mz Amanda

12/17/2012 9:54:04 AM

Hello Everyone;

Well I am getting back on my soap box for a moment and this time I truly hope you all read this entry.

First my heart goes out to the poor families who lost loved ones this past friday.  to say it was a tragedy is truly an understatement.

Now I ask as a country what else has to happen before we take a stand as a country to end senseless violence like this.  Anyone of those 20 children could of have been the one to find the cure for Cancer or ALS or MS or MD but instead they were gunned down even before their lives had begun.  I praise the adults who lost their lives to protect those children they are by all accounts Hero's.

But again I ask what do we have to do to put an end to this?  I served in the US Marine Corps as my father did and his father before him and even my mother was a Marine and we swore an oath.  But really does anyone think for a second that the founding fathers even thought for a second that when the wrote "The Right to Bare Arms" that they even thought that our leaders decades later would allow anyone to own an assault rifle?

I ask that you the fellow members of my chosen lifestyle to stand with me and write call or  your leaders at the city level at the state level at the federal level to put an end to this senseless violence



lets not let this go by without doing something this time PLEASE PLEASE.........

11/22/2012 9:43:47 AM

Hello Everyone I just want to wish everyone out there a very happy thanksgiving and I hope you all share what you are thankful for and express it to the ones you love and own

I am thankful for the handful of friends I have meet her and I hope the people who were touched by Sandy are doing ok my thoughts and love are with you all...

6/22/2012 9:53:52 AM

ok just a thought

why does someone email you then block you 


when one says Hi hope all is well and you respond and you see the user has blocked you

please if you are going to email me don't block me 

5/14/2012 4:00:59 PM

Ok on my soap box again so get ready 


Will someone please tell me why you would admire someone who you have not even spoken to or at least ask that you could follow them? 

Seriously people and this means you guys who if you had one active brain cell you would understand I am not seeing men and if I was trust me I would reach out to you 

but when the best pic you got leaves nothing to the imagination that says allot about just how much class you have to begin with.

People this is not a game to me so please if you have chosen to admire me without asking or even trying to talk to me do you really think I am impressed 

seriously think about it 


ok stepping off my soapbox


4/19/2012 10:11:57 AM

ok back on my soap box for a moment

Girls if you are going to lie will you please tell me why in the hell are you here???

seriously I am more than willing to help new ones learn but christ


OK Off my soap box



3/7/2012 2:58:33 PM

ok on my soap box again.

Why is it when a 28 year old Domme is called on the fact she doesn't have the experience and has claimed the title and not earned it they come back with calling someone a cm idiot?

I mean really.  or is it just the children who think they can claim the title and that makes them a Mistress.

I guess that is one of the issues I have with this new breed of so called Mistress's 

they have no idea what duties go with that title.  they just seem to think because they call themselves a Domme that all should bow to them?  I mean really WTF when I entered the lifestyle one had to actually spend time in an internship to learn their craft and the duties that go with that title.

once again I am reminded just how old I am.  

I am actually old enough to understand that respect is a two way street and I am old enough to still think I can learn from someone who has been in this lifestyle longer than I have.  yes I am old


ok now off my soap box

and for those of you who actually read it.  thank ou and you now have my respect.

2/28/2012 10:34:06 AM

ok I know i am old but WTF?

when there are children here how are telling us Mistress's that we have to impress them?

now i understand that there are a butt load of fakes and gamers on here but really?

for those of us that are old school (like myself) that is the stupidest thing I have seen on here.

now for those of you who are serious it is up to you to impress a Mistress or Master and trust me you will know a real one when you meet them 

so think before you say anything children

I mean really



10/26/2011 9:31:30 AM

An Obituary printed in the London Times.....Absolutely Brilliant !!

Today we mourn the passing of a beloved old friend, Common Sense,
who has been with us for many years. No one knows for sure how old he
was, since his birth records were long ago lost in bureaucratic red
tape. He will be remembered as having cultivated such valuable
lessons as:
- Knowing when to come in out of the rain;
- Why the early bird gets the worm;
- Life isn't always fair;
- and maybe it was my fault.

Common Sense lived by simple, sound financial policies (don't spend
more than you can earn) and reliable strategies (adults, not
children, are in charge).

His health began to deteriorate rapidly when well-intentioned but
overbearing regulations were set in place. Reports of a 6-year-old
boy charged with sexual harassment for kissing a classmate; teens
suspended from school for using mouthwash after lunch; and a teacher
fired for reprimanding an unruly student, only worsened his

Common Sense lost ground when parents attacked teachers for doing
the job that they themselves had failed to do in disciplining their
unruly children.

It declined even further when schools were required to get parental
consent to administer sun lotion or an aspirin to a student; but
could not inform parents when a student became pregnant and wanted to
have an abortion.

Common Sense lost the will to live as the churches became
businesses; and criminals received better treatment than their

Common Sense took a beating when you couldn't defend yourself from a
burglar in your own home and the burglar could sue you for assault.

Common Sense finally gave up the will to live, after a woman failed
to realize that a steaming cup of coffee was hot. She spilled a
little in her lap, and was promptly awarded a huge settlement.

Common Sense was preceded in death, by his parents, Truth and Trust,
by his wife, Discretion, by his daughter, Responsibility, and by his
son, Reason.

He is survived by his 4 stepbrothers;
I Know My Rights
I Want It Now
Someone Else Is To Blame
I'm A Victim

Not many attended his funeral because so few realized he was gone. If
you still remember him, pass this on. If not, join the majority and
do nothing.


9/15/2011 1:10:07 PM

ok I can see I need to say this now



do you understand guys?


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