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It's always difficult in such a few words to describe what One is after. So let's see if I can achieve the impossible here. There are essentials and there are desirables:
The essentials: You must have a penchant for curvy Domme's (I'm a size 18), you must have a great sense of humour, you must be self-sufficient (and even better - able to treat Me), you must enjoy and be proficient at domestic chores. You absolutely MUST be low maintenance and drama-free. I do not ever do moody men! I don't ever do needy or moany. And I especially don't do manipulative. You either must have your own teeth (or be a great liar). I'm after a ltr - you must not be married as I'm no one's 'bit on the side'.
The desirables: be great if you're creative, but I am - so it's not a problem if you're not. It would be good if you have some projects or passions of your own, I need and value My own space. If you're more than 20 miles away from Me - I'll only consider contact with you if you don't make it an issue for Me. Be awesome if you're a foot fetishist. I prefer mature men.
So - if I've not chased you off with excessive fierceness - drop Me a line.
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I try to always answer messages, even one-liners when I have time. Like many of the Domme's I tend to avoid getting into too much conversation with those who haven't completed a profile, how can I judge whether we'd have anything in common? I wonder whether the same men would apply for a job without a CV - and yet here, many are looking for something far more important than a job.
But I digress; I was contacted recently by someone who sent me an invitation to chat - I didn't know him, tried to read up about him, though the information was thin. So declined the offer, and expressed some doubt about compatability. In return I got an extremely rude insulting message.
Now, I read so many times in the journal entries that both D & s men get upset with Women who don't bother to respond when they're not interested! And I can understand how that would be frustrating - but for goodness sake - take these rejections on the chin!
My life is great - lots of lovely people - lots of great conversation, cinema, art, literature, caring and consideration. If you read my profile and you think that there's a connection; if you think that you can both benefit and derive benefit from me then get in touch. But let me just state for the record I'd rather be alone for the rest of my life than be with the wrong person.
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I wonder what it is about the world of BDSM that just refuses to be shelved for long. I've met so many people - women and men - who tell me how they 'gave up' for a while, only to find themselves returning to the search. I'm torn! I get a lot of requests for slave considerations, and whilst I understand (or think I understand) what they want, I still wonder if I value my space too highly to accept what sounds such a neat arrangement. I know know. Ladies? Anyone out there making that work for?
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| Age: 27 |
| Birch run,
Michigan |
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