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| ***Reminder*** If I take a peek at your profile, and don't leave a message; it doesn't mean that I didn't like what I saw/read. Just giving you an opportunity to notice me. :)
I am looking for something unique.
I am a "Soft Dominant" woman who seeks a submissive man both Inside and Outside of the bedroom. You MUST lead a traditional life, perhaps no one is aware of your submissive side (an Alpha male would be great). My sub will be gainfully employed, drug and disease free, a happy person, mentally stable, educated, well rounded, chivalrous, have a great sense of humor, excellent hygiene, and is VERY attractive. You must also be SINGLE and straight! Please note: I am into Str--on" play (IF YOU ARE), but not into feminizing my sub; you wearing My panties- HOT; you insisting on dressing like a woman...not for me. There is a difference! Over 33 and MATURE would be great! I am not looking for someone who is still living with relatives, inbetween jobs, trying to figure themselves out, etc.
I am also NOT looking for a 24/7 sub. I am looking for a blend of the two worlds: Vanilla and Dom/sub. Someone who can (and wants/needs to be) both my sub and my man.
I am looking for someone who has the TIME and MEANS to date their Goddess. If the only thing you want to do, is be punished by a Mistress, clean my house, be treated like *%@#, etc. I am not the Goddess for you. Please don't misunderstand, being punished is a part of being Dominated; I just want SOOOO much more in addition to that! I would LOVE to start out "dating" and end in a serious, monogamous, wonderful, and truly Dominant/submissive relationship. You must be prepared to do all of the things that come with dating. For example: getting to know one another, dining (sometimes we go out-sometimes we cook for each other), emailing, texting, talking over the phone, movies, hanging out, shopping, traveling, flowers, gifts, etc. You should WANT to do these things for your Goddess, as I will do them for you. Again, Vanilla and D/s.
I AM NOT looking for an "online" sub. I want somone who is searching for something real and 'LIVE'! If you are not prepared to talk on the phone within a couple of days after our inital contact and lots of emails/IM---we are not going to be a good match. I don't do well with the only communication we have is via a computer screen....We all have private lives that we need to protect, but at somepoint you have to be ready to take the next step.....
So, who is your Goddess? I am: 38, very tall, a woman of color (South American and African American and I identify MUCH more with my South American side ), divorced with kids. I am plus-size and wear my weight VERY well. I am told that I am very cute and sexy! I have a soft sensual voice and seductive smile. I have a great career, and overall wonderful life. I am looking for someone who can RESPECT my responsibilities and understand that, although I have children at home, I have PLENTY of time, and availability to be the Goddess that I am. Someone who longs to, eventually, be apart of my life...not an "every two week appointment" when you have a "Domme itch" that needs to be scratched.
If this is you...your Goddess will:
Seduce you
Contol you
And
Eventually, Love you
Only the serious need to respond. Do NOT send me an email with all of the things you want me to do to you. A true sub, will ask what his Mistress wants, not the other way around.
Having said all of that...I'd love someone who is READY; not someone who wants to email then "disappear", or all of a sudden have: "so much to do at work", "such a crazy schedule", "a lot going on right now", etc., when it comes time to talk on the phone and actually MEET.
If you're ready , say "Yes Goddess"
P.S. I adore, and would love to incorporate, Adult Nursing into my relationship, so if you are into being breastfed...you get BONUS POINTS!
WARNING: Sydney University and all other institutions and or individuals using this site or its associated sites for projects or personal - You do not have permission from me to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or have done so, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and you will be subject to legal action.
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I think it is officially time to call it quits. This site if for people looking to hook-up and play. Not for a real relationship. |
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Anyone new, in my area, on the site...? I feel like I have explored all options with those in my area. |
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This day sucks without someone. |
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You don't exist....I'm very sad. |
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It there a sign on me that says, "If you are: fake, married, unemployed, looking to get off, and not looking for a real relationship with a Real Woman, please contact me!!!!"
If so, will someone PLEASE remove it????
Can anyone tell me where the good looking, gainfully employed, single, submissive men who have their &%*&, together are? I need one! |
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I'M HAVIINGGG A BADDDD DAYYYY!!!! *&&^%$#@# Ohhh to have a sub.....I need to release. I need his mouth! Then eventually other body parts.... |
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Sighhhhhhhh, why do the good ones always live so far away? :( |
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Will someone please remove all of these straws of hay, so I can find my needle-please!
I just need one. You are HONEST, super cute, have a great career that does not take up 99.9% of your time, have a submissive side-but it doesn't define who you are, you are local (you don't have to be next door, but not 3,000 miles away), you lead an incredible life, and loooonnnggg for the right Domina to complete it. You yearn to have someone to talk to late at night, wish a good moring, and ask, "Where do you want to go for dinner, baby?"
Maybe you don't exsist..... |
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~The Ramblings of a very FRUSTRATED DOMINA~
I read so many journal entries from people saying that there are too many fake and Pro Dommes on this site. Well let me tell you, as a real Domina, searching for a real submissive, and wonderful man, the same is true for subs. Sooooo many fakes, liars, attached men--all just looking to get off. We begin to IM, talk on the phone (in an attempt to get to know one another), etc. Then once they realize that I am not going to cyber/give, them a phone session, meet him immediately, etc...I never hear from them again. If that is what you are looking for, just say so, and stop wasting my time! You won't get it from me, but just be honest; I am.
Maybe this site is just full of fake people period....Domme and sub.
Too bad :(
Doesn't this site have any, local, submissive men. Seems as though everyone is a "slave", wants to be of service, etc. ...everyone wants to be used an abused then thrown away until he has the "itch" again. No one seems to want to be in a Female Led Relationship. Or it takes a week to hear back from someone. How on earth are we supposed to get to know one another, if we email once a week?
This feels hopeless. |
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It seems that I need to explain my desire for a straight man. I have NO issue with a bisexual man, so long as he knows what he wants in his life for a long-term relationship. If you still desire to be with a man, we are not a good match, for I am not a man. However, if you have been with men yet LONG for a Domina, and WANT to ONLY be with a DOMINA...by all means....let me know. |
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Here's something I daydream about...I shower, step out, and am toweled off and kissed dry by my man. He gently assists me with my robe, and I walk over to my bed. I climb onto it, lift my robe, and then slowly bend over. I do this all while looking him straight in the eyes. He sees exactly what I intended to show him, and he is ELATED. I pull on his leash and collar (it's that kind of an evening) and he HUNGRILY responds.
Oh to make daydreams into realities....
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Oh My Gosh...if one more person asks me to PLAY I am going to scream. Come on.....READDDD!! I DO NOT PLAY!!!! The ONLY thing I will do is date with the purpose of getting to know someone for a possible RELATIONSHIP!!! Goodness!!!! |
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Please read my profile, BEFORE contacting. I AM NOT looking to "play" or objectify you online, etc. I am looking for Vanilla and D/s in a RELATIONSHIP--Live and Direct....real, live dating, which will lead to and incredible relationship.
Sighhhhh |
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Feliz Ano Novo/Happy New Year! May we all find our perfect match! |
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All I want for Christmas is a real possibliity...a possibility of something amazing. And if that possiblity rubs My feet after shopping all day long-I would be so very pleased and reward him accordingly. |
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Where are you ........My perfect needle in a needle-layden haystack...... |
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Sighhhhh, I think what I am looking for does not exsist....
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Happy Wednesday to you...it has come to my attention that some of you may not know what to do once I view your profile. Well....if you have read mine and are interested....say hello! My lack of initial communication does not equate to lack of interest ;) |
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Hello there....I am back (just for a quick peek), after a MUCH needed break. Here's the thing....99.9% of the subs I have spoken to on this site are fakes and/or liars. I just don't have the time, energy, or desire to play games. I know that many, many people say the same for the Dommes. However, I am NOT one of them. I am 110% of what I say in my profile, and am looking for EXACTLY what I've stated. I was sooo tired of men saying that they are "subs" but really just looking to be a sex slave a few times a month, married/attached, don't live where they say they do, unemployed, still trying to figure themselves out, still living with family/friends etc. Please don't waste my time, there is NOTHING wrong with any of those things, they are just NOT for me.
I'd LOVE to get to know someone, do wonderful VANILLA dating things, and take it from there. IF.......I seem like someone you would like to know AND you are honest and think we MIGHT have a few (important) things in common...say hello. If not, I wish you well and Happy Holidays! |
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I think I need to clarifiy a few things...
When I said I am not looking for a long distance relationship, I mean that I am not looking for something that is permanently long distance. If you are one who has the ability and means to: come and see me a couple time per month, communicate via a webcam, and are reallly and truly looking for a RELATIONSHIP-and NOT hook-up when you are in town-then I am OPEN to it!
I won't limit my self in finding my perfect someone, to a certian geographic location.
Having said all of that, I am still searching for someone who is serious about this. |
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I can't stand this!!!! Why in the heck is this sooooo dannnnnnngggggg difficult!!!
I need to vent. I really, really appreciate those of you who reach out to me, and want to "chat". However, I am NOT looking for an online ANYTHING. No long distance relationship, "online sub", etc. I am just looking for someone real. Someone who will not disappear after exchanging a few emails through our personal emails!
PLEASE DO NOT send me an email stating you will be "on my side of town" in a few days, and want to know if I an interested in "meeting up"! What part of I DO NOT HOOK UP, is hard to comprehend? I am looking for a RELATIONSHIP. Period! Vanilla with a twist. Instead of dating an a-typial vanilly woman (and there is NOTHING wrong with that)....you would be with a DOMME!!!
I am not looking for someone who wants to be "used" (which can have a hidden meaning of.."I need a Domme to get me off"), then forgotten about for the next two weeks, until you need a "Domme fix" again.
What the *&^%^%@! |
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Doesn't anyone want to be emotionally collared?? I find that, the very few men on this site who are actually real/serious about this,....only want to be "used & abused". No one wants to be really and truly dominated, in EVERY sense of the word.
Curious.... |
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I need a mouth...preferably attached to a decent body and an incredible man. |
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Sighhhhhhhh, :(
Last Saturday I felt hopeful, a week later...I feel worse. Sometimes I fee like giving up-as though the person I am looking for, is not looking for me. |
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Happy Saturday, how is everyone?
I feel a tiny bit better now. I have spoken to at least three people who were "REAL". For one reason or another we are not a good match, but it gives me hope.
SIDE NOTE: Please Do Not send me a message asking me to chat with you if we have not shared a conversation via email! I think that is soooooo rude. Have some respect and introduce yourself and ASK if we can have an email conversation....we MIGHT be able to take it from there.
P.S. If you life semi-far away (within 2 hours), it is OKAY to send me a message. Who knows, we may be a perfect match! We will just have to do a little more planning than those who live within the same city : ) |
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So, here we are again....full of frustration.
I find this site to have soooooooo many flakes and phonies!! All I am looking for is a great submissive man who has is %$@ together! Not someone who is looking to "play", try it out, or someone who thinks that I am here to fulfill his Domination fantasies...
Do you exists??? |
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Why is this soooooo difficult? Why or why? Someone please tell me!! |
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This is such a long and adruous road. I have found so many men on this site wanting more of an "online" type of situation, opposed to finding someone compatible, and taking it from there. These are the same people who won't communicate outside of this website or share a photo....Curious....
I want one, just one, fabulous man who will relish in my strength and control. Is that too much to ask???
Tell me..... |
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| Age: 48 |
| Charlotte,
North Carolina |
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