More about me...

So like I said in my description, I've always known that I was  a Dom, but I never got involved with "the lifestyle".  I think because early on I met a couple of people who were into it, and the guys were complete tools and the women were... well, left something to be desired.  I said to myself "if that's what being a part of the BDSM community is, I'm definitely NOT that.  Those people are idiots! 

Now since then, I've been enlightened that not everyone in the lifestyle are like the people that I met first.  I am thankful for that.  But in the interim I was forced to develop myself as a Dom figuring out what I liked, what I didn't like, what I wanted out of a partner, all that sort of thing... And I had to do it alone... So I don't really know all of the jargon and acronyms associated with the lifestyle.  Don't take this as ignorance, I can assure you that it is not... 

During this "learning phase"  I met playtoys and women that developed into phenomenal slaves, that I was extremely pleased with.  Most of which I still keep regular contact with even though I've had to move a long distance away.

As I was able to push their boundaries, I was also pushing my own... Developing tastes for certain things, and distastes for others.  I know without question what I desire out of a partner now... 

Ideally, I would have a long-term slave.   One that serves me, devotedly, full time.  However this isn't always possible, nor desirable by both parties.   I am up for an occasional, routine meeting, a relationship... Anything like that.  One-time flings are kind of pointless for me because it doesn't really give me time to feel out what I like with that particular partner, and vice versa I'm sure.  But if you are just adamant you want to come over and serve me for just once... It can be discussed. 

Control gets me off... Pure and simple.  Be it by restraints, or my hands, I will always demand total compliance and obedience from my partners.  I will always discuss with her beforehand what she wants/needs out of it and what the ground rules are, and we will work from there.  So, obedience is a must. 

  I also like degradation and humiliation... Spitting, slapping, name-calling, violation... you name it... The more degrading it is, the more that I like it.  This is not a necessity, just a turn on.  

It is a mental game for me much more than physical, although physcial will ALWAYS be part of it... Ideally I would look at my partner with a sense of ownership.  Of knowing that I control her and, she will do as she's told, and should the urge to abuse her come over me, even without provocation, she will take it passively, because it pleases me to do so.  That in her mind, everything she wants is related to pleasing me, and making me happy.

Don'ts: 

I am not into causing injuries... By injuries, I mean something that one would normally go to the hospital for... 

I do not want to cut you, if slicing turns you on, that's too bad. I will not do it.  

Do not meet with me to piss your Master/Husband/Whatever that I don't know about off... It works, and I want no part of it. (Yes this has happened before)  Couples are a-okay... As long as they're both informed and cool about things.  Do not sneak behind your Dom's back to come see me, it shows your character as a slave. 
I am not bi. Nor do I enjoy other men watching.  I've given both plenty of chances... Just not into it.  

So with that being said... That's me. If you made it this far and are interested... Let me know.