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Hey there; I'm not really new to this scene, but I haven't had much luck with a good dom to teach me yet, and so most of what I've learned has just been through experimentation and my own research. As such, please, be gentle if I mess up a bit.
I'm eighteen and I live in Ontario, Canada near Barrie. I'm definately sub, and don't like being made to be dom. As for my other likes, that'll be discussed more privately.
I'm a 24/7, meaning I like SM as a lifestyle, not just a bedroom hobby. My first owner (bless him) was the only one I was able to find who had any idea about what he was doing (not just my judgement, the others actually told me that), and he was in charge of me 24/7. I tried the other way after that.. it just wasn't satisfying.
I'm bi, swinging just the teensiest bit more towards guys, but not by much.
Although I haven't had many owners, my last 24/7 owner left a big impression on me, as I've said. As such, even though I'm sub, I'm not about to jump all over every dom that comes my way like some depraved puppy. I am picky, I am choosy. If you send me a one-liner, chances are I won't even bother to respond. One thing I've figured out since I've joined this site is that I'm going to get about 40 new people messaging me a day (at least so far). That means if you want to stand out, you'll have to make an impression. Not trying to sound unfriendly here; I just don't have the time to respond to so many messages, when a lot of them don't even give me anything to work with. Mind you, that doesn't automatically mean that if I don't respond, I'm not interested. Life's pretty hectic right now, so a lot of the time, I only have time to read messages, and I have to respond later. Keep that in mind, please. If I don't respond right away, just wait a little bit.
I believe strongly in the safe, sane, consensual concept. Basically, I feel that there needs to be a mutual respect between owner and slave, and if it doesn't exist, someone is doing something wrong. Being able to yell and scream a lot and physically force someone to do what you want doesn't make you a good dom. I've known other subs who have fallen victim to this, and the line between dominance and abuse has been crossed. I don't think anyone's really satisfied in that scenario, and no sub deserves that.
One last thing: I'm willing to bend on almost anything at all, but age is something I'm a bit iffy about. Now, with the right dom I'm sure this limit could be stretched, but for the moment, I do have an age range I try and keep with; I get nervous past that. Basically, 35 is the highest I'll go for age, unless the person strikes me as someone who I could really learn from (in that case I'd have to think about it a bit more). I prefer 30 to be the highest, but between 30-35 I'm still going to think it over.
Lastly (I've gotten a lot of these), don't send me messages asking right away if I'd like to go be your 24/7 sub. This is an online meeting community, and I'm eighteen years old. It's very easy for people to lie online, and it's very difficult, even if they're honest, for you to get a good impression of them right off of the bat. If I'm going to give you that sort of power over my life, I need to develop a deep trust in you first, otherwise how will you know I'm going to commit? If the relationship is going to be productive, we both need to be sure, and so if you're interested in me, we're going to have to get to know each other a bit first.
Still interested? Then drop me a line, and we'll see how it goes.
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