IF YOU ARE
NOT LOCAL TO ME,
NOT LISTED AS WILLING TO RELOCATE,
NOT CONSIDERED BY THE MAJORITY AS DESIRABLE,
NOT WITHIN AN AGE RANGE OF 28-45,
NOT HAPPY WITH BEING SEEN AND DRESSED AS A MAN,
THEN, I WILL NOT RESPOND
I hate to come across as shallow, but just because you are submissive, or are a slave, and want to serve, doesnt automatically mean I (or any Dominant) wants you. Be sure youve got something worthwhile to bring to the table. Make sure you are offering something of value (not money). If you dont consider yourself worthy, then move along. I have no use for useless men with no spine or zero ambition.
I am looking to add someone that is not seeking a wife or monogamous arrangement, but one that is searching for his place in someones life as a companion and playmate. (when I say ADD someone, I mean the person I am seeking will be in addition to my already acquired spouse. If you have an issue with Polyamory, have any jealousy issues, or only want to be THE man in my life, then move along.) I attend many events and parties, and I do love arriving with a bit of arm candy. Public play is not my first choice for scenes, though I do enjoy them occasionally, so you must be comfortable with being displayed in all your nakedness for others to see. Also, youll need to be in some sort of physical condition for people to WANT to see you naked. I am trying to find a man that is comfortable enough with himself that he can feel at ease in the situations I present for him, whether they be private or very public.
I have been around the block enough times to be able to ascertain when someone is being false, so trying to fake it til you make it wont fly with me. Thinking that a couple hours a month will do, does not endear me to your cause. I am looking for someone very local that can, and will, be available for events, travel, private instruction, and even Netflix and chill time. Someone that is capable of domestic service and personal assisting, and eager to do so, is a huge plus.Im NOT looking for a sissy maid or anyone desiring cross-dressing. These things are fine and dandy, and I have many friends that indulge in such activities. However, I am not attracted to those types, so you better be happy being a man. Im not an over bearing shrew, either, so if youre looking for a stereotypical porn site FemDom, move along. I do have a strong hand, but Im not domineering.
The qualities the man Im looking for will have are these
Somewhere in the 28-45 age range, preferably
Reasonably attractive (and I will expect a face picture AND a full length clothed photo of you included with your initial inquiry, and I will decide if youre to my liking, or not)
Good physical and mental health
Stable income (of which, I do not want any of your funds, I have my own, thank you)
Enjoys social settings as much as quiet evenings home
Has the ability to find the laughter in everything, even when its relatively serious
Is a moderate to heavy masochist that really enjoys the endorphin rush of a good scene.
One that is curious and eager to learn more
Attentive and compassionate and can easily sense the potential needs of another.
All of these criteria are important to me. If you pay attention, only one is specifically attached to kink, BDSM, or any kind of inferred dynamic, so basically, if you cant be deemed decent dating material, then Im not interested in you. The person I choose will be an important part of my life, and my heart, so a connection has to be present for me to entertain the idea of accepting you as my submissive or slave. So if you can say yes to at least 8 of the 12 listed above, then I would like to hear from you and evaluate your further progression.
Thank you for your attention.