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	My dominance over my mate is simply what I believe is the correct natural order, not a bedroom game. I am not interested in inflicting pain on someone I love. For me, pain and sex do not mix. BDSM is NOT what I am looking for (It seems further clarification is needed...this means I don't want to pee on you, take your ass, chain you for days in the basement, etc.) I enjoy the mental control and have an affinity for truly submissive males....the pleasers (i.e 1950's role reversal as most seem to call it) I have had other profiles on here and wasn't finding what I need. I'm trying one last time and hoping my profile finally attracts the sort of mate I am looking for. I prefer my mate be strong, tough, assertive, educated and successful. He is the first to stand up if there is danger. He is a man that other men defer to and admire. He is in no way a weak man. I could not be with a weakling. I need a strong shoulder sometimes like everyone else. Secondly I am also assertive and confident but not aggressive or abusive. Most people would probably describe me as quiet but self-assured. Aggression and dominance are two different things and people often confuse them. Aggressive women are often those who lack self-confidence and try to compensate for that by being obnoxious. A truly dominant woman has no need for aggression. I have a desire to be obeyed and to be in control. I desire a mate who enjoys deferring to me and who derives his pleasure from making me happy. I will also make sure your needs are met. I will not force your submission, it must be freely given. The more you submit, the more I will dominate. Although I am looking for a lifetime partner and potentially marriage, I know it takes time to form this relationship. It does not develop overnight. It's entirely about the mental aspect for me not the physical.

6/26/2014 8:03:11 PM

I've come to conclusion that realistically if you aren't close enough to meet for a cup of coffee it's highly unlikely we'll ever meet. Although I did have a sub drive five hours to meet me. He stayed for 10 minutes, got too scared and drove back...a couple of days later he begged for another try.

4/6/2014 5:42:33 PM

Although what I'd really like to have a submissive male, it's been one of those weeks/weekends it would have been nice to have a slave.

2/2/2014 6:40:13 PM

Would have been a much more tolerable super bowl had I had a sub at my feet

11/4/2013 6:23:11 PM

Overwhelmed with messages. I'm working on trying to respond

11/3/2013 5:00:19 PM

I ask that before you respond to my profile that you truly read it and try to understand it. I don't know how to make it any clearer. If you have posted a picture of yourself bound, gagged, nude in a basement or anything along that line, we will not be a match. Also, if you state in your message that you want to help me realize all of my nastiest fantasies, we won't be a match as I have no nasty fantasies to fulfill. If you envision the leather clad, stocking, 6 inch heel supermodel, save some time. Im an average looking fashion disaster. If your message is about pleasing me sexually, save your time. It's not about sex. To me it's plain and simple, but it seems as if I'm speaking a foreign language.

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PrincessKaydee

Age: 35

Near IAD, Virginia