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Back to looking for a sub I’m extremely picky anyway so this will take a while lol |
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I love how nobody seems to know who De Sade or Von Masoch were but everybody knows Christian Grey . I'm not sure if it's more funny or depressing lol |
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new resolution: as already stated I'm not looking for relationships play or anything like that but I would love to chat make more friends here and help new people identify real dominants over trolls and fakes the same trolls and fakes that hurt so many both physically and mentally on here and hope to have a positive impact on people anyway on with a little list of things you need to know and help you identify.
1) real doms won't ask you to call them sir master or with any title that's reserved for when and if you become their sub they'll probably introduce themselves to you and tell you to call them by their name your submission is something that is given once you are ready and feel safe it's something that requires trust.
2) real doms won't contact you with abusive messages telling you what they wanna do to you they'll try to get to know you physical is very important but the mental aspect is even more important to bdsm.
3) doms dont cross the line of your limits unless if it's decided by both and you genuinely want to try to expand your horizons even then it's happening in a safe environment and he aims not to break your trust or traumatise you .
4) trust and submission are to be earned not given to someone just cause he claims to be a dom , men that demand them without knowing you obviously don't know or don't have experience just urges .being both inexperienced isn't necessarily bad as long as you are both sincere about it and take small steps
more to follow
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single again and with no interest on changing that any time soon friends only. |
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gods sake we need to stop buying shit from amazon im getting addicted lol |
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well this is Nick I just took the bdsm test the foloowing links are my results https://bdsmtest.org/result.?id=3205444 https://bdsmtest.org/resultpdf.?id=3205444
== Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Sadist 99% Dominant 98% Degrader 98% Rigger 96% Master/Mistress 86% Owner 61% Brat tamer 55% Experimentalist 47% Voyeur 39% Non-monogamist 38% Primal (Hunter) 31% Exhibitionist 22% Daddy/Mommy 11% Masochist 3% Ageplayer 2% Brat 2% Degradee 2% Rope bunny 2% Switch 1% Submissive 1% Vanilla 0% Girl/Boy 0% Pet 0% Primal (Prey) 0% Slave |
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I don't get people sometimes I was chatting with a lady purely non-sexual chat and I noticed that her age was different between Skype and cs so I asked and in all honesty I asked in a polite careful not to offend way as I was enjoying the friendly chat. result? reply that her cs profile had the right age then silence and block me Lol only thing to do raise eyebrow and mutter wtf |
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Lazily looking around profiles I notice a high volume of doms expect subs to call them sir master whatever after the first message...maybe its just me but I see it as something to be earned,a title that shows respect and respect is earned through time not just given to strangers
Honestly if someone started calling me sir or master out of the blue I'd puzzled ,i dont need anyone to feed my ego i guess lol |
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