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The basics on me:
non smoker, very light drinker, work out regularly, make a good living, talkative (oh I can blather on!), laid back friendly demeanor, respectful of everyone I interact with on daily basis.
The non-basics:
I enjoy the power exchange element of BDSM. Bondage, control and imagining new ways and situations to enjoy that control. I do not get off on inflicting great pain (floggers making a butt red is another thing) nor do i get off on humiliating someone in front of others..
While BDSM is an essential ingredient I want more than a one dimensional person. I enjoy going out of town for the weekend, hiking, movies, long conversations with good people etc, etc, etc. I believe the corny saying is "You have to give it your all if you want to have it all."
What am I looking for:
Clearly I'm looking for a submissive so that might just be a *tad* helpful. I don't want a brat but someone who wants to please and is open to new things. Someone with a brain that can carry on a conversation... someone happy, full of life, not a slave to past baggage.
In the end the best these sites can do is introduce two people. It certainly can't pinpoint that kismet match. It can however be used to filter out obvious bad matches. In that spirit:
If I have to go through another person to talk to you or you are seeing someone else at this time...
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If you are more than 25 Miles away from Boise
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if this is all you think about all day and have no other interests ...
...then it would be a waste of our time to talk as it has no hope of long term success.
On the other hand if what I have said interested you then take a chance and say hello.
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