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� Are the stars pin holes in the blanket of night? � ...Why does the sun come up in the morning?....

Who knows why things are, but I know that I was born different and I embrace it. � � I'm looking to meet like minded friends and to keep in touch with those I have made (especially that tackle hug chick from Georgia.) � �

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5/6/2013 8:18:55 AM

Greetings all, just another shout out for my wonderful wife and Miss.   Vanilla life continues to be quite all demanding of our time and quite a challenge, but I am blessed to be with a woman who really gets the all parts of life thing with a relationship and lets me know she cares as well as desires our kinky side even when the rest of our life doesn't allow it to happen.  It's so much easier to be patient and weather the daily challenges when I have a loving partner who keeps letting me know that she looks forward to our next bit of private time as much as I do.   The really good news is that our free time will soon be freeing up and we're both hopeful for some good, long, and intense rewards for our patience.


10/25/2011 9:09:16 PM

I've had enough fun for one vanilla life.   My Miss is a fabulous woman, she's standing by me and supporting me even when I freak out from the stress.    Our relationship is more than the kinky fun, it's also about understanding and support.   I am quite blessed to have her in my life.


10/15/2011 10:22:26 AM

I don't care if you're puritan, vanilla, gay, kinky, or a combination thereof.   A person who you connect with is a fabulous thing and my Miss is exactly that.   I feel so fortunate.

 

After 6 months of talking, vanilla dates, kinky dates, kinky play time, and a few very bad events in both our lives the ways we connect are beyond description.   My Miss understands me and the more I think about our relationship the more I realize I'm not a "good" sub in the traditional Ds sense but she gets it and enjoys it.

 

I also get her and enjoy her, there are times when she can't let herself be cared for but needs to be and I have found ways to do it without pushing too hard.  

 

My biggest hope is that I do as much for her as she does for me.

 

Continue to wish us well in all areas of our relationship.

 

P.S. - The rough sex and the Ds play are ROCKING.


9/5/2011 9:25:09 AM

Spent part of the weekend reinforcing the Miss' bed after it kept coming apart on us.    Definitely the sign of a good relationship.  :o)


6/20/2011 6:15:21 AM

A twist on an on gay-straight discussion, but here are 7 questions all vanillas should ask themselves........

1.  What caused me to be vanilla?

2.  When and how did I first decide I was vanilla?

3.  Is it possible my obsession with vanilla is just a phase and I'll grow out of it?

4.  If I never try kinky sex and welts, how can I be sure that I wouldn’t prefer that? 

5.  How would someone react if I confessed to them that I was interested in plain vanilla sex?

6.  Shouldn't I just try to not be a vanilla?

7.  hmmm......Therapy might help me change.  After all, I never deliberately chose to be a vanilla.


6/14/2011 2:17:39 PM

I have been over 5 years in looking for a good connection.   The vanillas struggle to find a good connection, I feel it is even more difficult for us as we have to connect in vanilla as well as kink.   I have encountered a woman who I connect with extremely well in vanilla as well as kink and we are exploring the possibilities.   Wish us well.


5/25/2011 9:35:16 PM

This is my first venture into a public journal or blog.  All are welcome to question me or to simply comment, but I'm not sure how many will read this. 

 

I have met several BDSM friends over the years and I love each of them greatly.  I have little or no contact with most of them, but their mark on me remains and it is a good mark.

 

I continue to look for the one and I often wonder if I will ever find her.  It is an odd state to be in, but I won't settle for less in a deep relationship.


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 Age: 37
  Maryland