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I am, first and foremost, a good man. I am a man with integrity, honor, and honest to a fault. I don't make claims I can't back up, and I will not mislead or misdirect anyone, even if I have to gain by doing so. I am married to the love of my life, who is mildly submissive, sometimes aggressive, but mostly vanilla. She does however understand that the Dom in me has to have it's outlet, and supports me fully and in every way. We have had live in subs and slaves, and understand the dynamics needed to provide both the support and proper ownership. We have a happy and content home, we live a good life, with me as the head of the home and final decision maker in all things.

Currently, I have a wonderful wife of three decades who is also my geisha, and looking for either one or two good subs or slaves to move into my huge country home. What I would love more then anything else is to find a sub or slave who wants to be a stay at home wife, caring for the home and my needs much like a 50's household.

Must be intelligent, well mannered, eager to please and above all honest. If you made it this far, then you are likely a good candidate to talk, but here is a more complete view of who I am. I have worked with subs and slaves for decades, and while I am well versed in both I prefer to find a submissive slave. That is not to say you have to be a slave, just a good submissive, with a preference for being taught to be a slave with the right guidance from a patient and caring Master.

I care dearly and completely for any one I take as mine, or I would not offer to have them. I spend long hours learning and getting to know a sub before I even ask to meet, and when I do meet, do not have sex on my mind until and unless we are all satisfied that there is a more then good chance we will be together long term. We are a faithful group, with no sexual contact outside of our group, and very cautious of inviting anyone new into our home.

We enjoy life, talking, movies, games. I am the type of Master that gives more hugs then whippings, never loses his temper, does not punish because I know that an eager sub will respond properly to positive reinforcement and the knowledge I was disappointed then she would from suffering, and a masochist would enjoy the punishment anyway.

I tend to have a huge ego, but not one that gets in the way of me being calm, rational, and level headed. I am the type of man that is comfortable in a board room or with on an assembly line. I am a well respected professional that makes multi-million dollar decisions routinely, and deal with the highest levels of technology easier then most can turn on a TV.

I am a Master, not just a Dom. I am a Dom, but I have the skills and experience, along with the patience, disposition, and knowledge of the mental aspects involved in the interactions between a Master and his property to train even the most inexperienced submissive to her fullest extent. I mold, teach, and guide with finesse, and enjoy every minute. I do expect obedience, but it is extremely rare that the full reasons and direction are not conveyed completely.

I have very strong emotions but my logical side is always the one in control. A Master slave relationship is, regardless of anything else, a relationship. Both have to to give effort, both have to do what is needed to fulfill their side of the deal. I take mine seriously, and I expect no less then complete effort at all times. That does not however mean I expect success. The effort if far more important then the results. Show me your trying, show me you want it, you have done your job. I will show you that you will get the support and assistance needed to be a success.

One of my great pleasures is to push a slave past her fears and limits while teaching her to love it all. I do not make a slave look away or down, because I want to be looking in her eyes. I feel that a Master that can't look into the eyes of his property should not be a Master. If I can't earn your respect, and make you crawl and beg like a complete slut from just the power of the feelings I create to your very soul, then I am not doing my job. And I am very good at my job.

I in no way want a slave that can not think for herself, talk to me in clean and honest terms, and and hold conversations about life, the universe, and every thing. If I make a mistake I expect to be held accountable and have it pointed out. You will find the chance to point it out very rare, I pride myself on learning and growing every day, and I will learn from my property regularly.

I get asked often about my feelings on Gorean ways. No, I am not Gorean. No, I have not read all of them. Yes, I do know a great deal about them. With that said, my style and methods of ownership are not that different from what I have seen represented as the Gorean ways. With the exception of not being a role player, and not being particularly interested in a new set of terms to represent what can be put into English, a Gorean slave would find a good home with me and my "free woman" and other slave.

I am very extreme and demanding in my S&M needs. I find a thrill in pushing and taking, and while I take great care of my property to hear a slave whimper, beg, even cry, has an intoxicating effect on me, and the harder it is for a slave to accept what is being demanded of her the more it excites me. If you see yourself in what I have described, consider this a rare chance to be a part of one of the most unique and amazing homes you could ever hope to find. Tell me this is what you want, show me you are serious, and maybe you will be the last slave taken and trained by this Master.

Masters rules

1. _____ A Master will not, intentionally or through neglect, get a slave arrested
2. _____ A Master will not mark a slave except in agreed upon manners (tattoo, brand, scar) and in agreed upon locations
3. _____ A Master will not, intentionally or through neglect, breach the discretion required by his slave
4. _____ A Master will provide a safe environment for the slave to flourish and grow
5. _____ A Master will not divulge a slaves secret desires and needs to anyone unless this is a desire of the slaves
6. _____ A Master will be strong, firm and consistent
7. _____ A Master will know who he is, what he requires of his slave, and what his weaknesses are
8. _____ A Master will know his slave, better then she knows herself, and learn something about her every day
9. _____ A Master will know what his slave is capable of, how far she can be pushed, and what her fears and desires are
10. _____ A Master will recognize when a slave is pushing him and testing him and take appropriate action
11. _____ A Master will discipline his slave for even minor infractions, in order to show his slave that she matters to him
12. _____ A Master will never burden a slave with decisions
13. _____ A Master will control his slave, and never let her make her own choices
14. _____ A Master will know when to allow a slave to do things important to her that he does not want her to do
15. _____ A Master will be ever present in the slaves life, even if they are not in the same location
16. _____ A Master will command respect, not fear
17. _____ A Master will have control of his anger, and never strike out in weakness
18. _____ A Master will know when to turn and take a deep breath and when to smack a slave back into her place
19. _____ A Master will provide balance, stability, and calm to the life of his home
20. _____ A Master will use or not use a slave sexually at his own discretion and frequency
21. _____ A Master will own his slave until such time as he decides it is in her best interest to be released, traded or given away

Slaves rules


1) _____ A slave will obey her Master in all things, regardless of her or societies opinion on the subject
2) _____ A slave will show the same obedience and respect shown her Master to anyone her Master designates as her superior
3) _____ A slave will show respect to her Master, his friends, family, and associates at all times, including referring to him as Master in private, or sir in other situations
4) _____ A slave will never lie to her Master, or lie by omission of information
5) _____ A slave will trust her Master with all fantasies, fears, and desires
6) _____ A slave will inform her Master of the groups of people whom she would like the relationship to be discrete
7) _____ A slave will learn and grow every day
8) _____ A slave will accept her Master for who he is
9) _____ A slave will accept herself for who she is, the property of her Master
10) _____ A slave will inform her Master of the type and placement of marks she gives him the right to make
11) _____ A slave will function autonomously when not in the presence of her Master, executing decisions as close to what her Master would decide as she can
12) _____ A slave will not attempt to manipulate her Master in any way
13) _____ A slave will put her Masters needs, wants, and desires above her own
14) _____ A slave will try to anticipate her Masters needs and take action to provide him the most pleasing environment
15) _____ A slave will be available sexually at all times and in all ways to her Master
16) _____ A slave will not expect her wishes to dictate her Masters actions
17) _____ A slave will not have orgasms without the direct consent or order from her Master
18) _____ A slave will have orgasms when ever her Master orders them
19) _____ A slave will dress to please her Master
20) _____ A slave will be the property of her Master until such time as he release, trades, or gives her away
21) _____ A slave will accept any and all punishment her Master prescribes
22) _____ A slave will conduct herself as a friend, employee, or house guest, as her master demands, around those who do not know of the relationship
23) _____ A slave will show respect to all
24) _____ A slave will not interfere with any other relationship her Master has, or pursues, and will do whatever is needed to assist in his achieving such relationships
25) _____ A slave will never grumble or complain under her breath. If she has an issue with her orders or treatment she will kneel before him and when allowed to speak her mind express her opinion
26) _____ A slave will never lose her temper
27) _____ A slave will complete all tasks assigned her by her Master as quickly and effectively as possible
28) _____ A slave will maintain good hygiene
29) _____ A slave will take good care of her Masters property, including herself
30) _____ A slave will take care of her Masters domestic needs, preparing his meals and drinks per his instructions
31) _____ A slave will go first to her Master with any and all problems and issues she encounters
32) _____ A slave will keep logs of her feelings, spending, and thoughts to allow her Master to monitor her properly
33) _____ A slave will take responsibility for the cleaning, storing, and up keep of all toys and equipment used
34) _____ A slave will go to her Master at the first possible time to inform him of any infraction to his rules
35) _____ A slave will not invade the privacy or space of her Master or others without the direct orders of her Master
36) _____ A slave will not ingest medications, alcohol, or cigarettes, without her Masters permission
37) _____ A slave will work outside the home if directed by her Master
38) _____ A slave will maintain the ability to start a new life if released by her Master. This usually takes the form or a bank account with $2000 available
39) _____ A slave will make any and all resources she possesses to her Master including all property and money
40) _____ A slave will take responsibility for her own medical expenses unless specifically changed by her Master
41) _____ A slave must clear all spending with her Master, including personal expenses such as medical, dental, medicine, and work related expenses
42) _____ A slave will keep ALL information she learns about her Master, his family, and associates confidential from ALL others unless specified by her Master
43) _____ A slave will never ask her Master what he is doing or who he is talking, chatting, or emailing with
44) _____ A slave will not communicate with anyone not directly approved by her Master
45) _____ A slave will not intrude on her Masters personal communications