I'm seeking that special woman to become my submissive and partner. This is a secondary profile, my main one, (Master Chocolatier), is over on Informed Consent.

But for those who don't go on that site I'll put a bit more about myself here.

I have been into BDSM for a number of years and have been out and about on the 'scene' for a a good part of them. I enjoy going to various events including the BBB, PEER, the Birmingham Mid-week Munch and nights at Ceasars. I am hoping to get to events farther a field as and when time allows.

The type of woman I seek must be fit- I have no problem with bigger (BBWs) women you are just not what I seek for a partner/ sub.

I'm not after a doormat, inteligence and a good sense of humour are a must. BDSM is part of who I am, not what I am. I have a vanilla life outside of it and would want my sub to be part of it.

To that degree I'm seeking a LTR /regular play rather than one off sessions- though I am always open for some play.

The BDSM interests I have listed are just a set of guide lines. Some I've tried and am into, some I want to try, so ask if you have any questions.

I hate text speak, we have a good and proper written language- use it. I also hate having my time wasted, so if you are not going to get out from behind your keyboard don't bother contacting me. If you do contact me, kindly make an effort and write more than one line, and don't call me 'Sir' straight out the gate. It is a sign of ownership, and I certainly wouldn't own you after one e-mail. The same goes with the whole capitals/lower case thing, for me it only comes once a proper relationship has been established.

Finally if I take the time to read your profile then send you a polite e-mail then be polite enough in return to reply- they do have quick reply options if you can't be bothered to write one.