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Hetero Male Dominant, 36,  MissionViejo, California
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Who am I I am one that is skilled, knowledgeable, respectful and always willing to help new people. What am I In short, a sadist and rat bastard contained within a gentlemans body. Why am I Because I was taught (by my mentor) that no matter who I talk to, they all deserve respect till given clearance to do otherwise. What else? I am more then capable of doing next to anything even though most of you think I am either too young or too inexperienced. Age does not dictate experience or ability. If you wonder anything else, ask. Sir W












 Dominant Male



 6' 0"

 195 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female


A Poly Household


 Amusement Parks


 Ultimate Frisbee


 Antique Shows

 Art Galleries

 Fine Dining



 Garage Sales






 Horseback Riding





 Curious About:

 Bar Hopping

 Flea Markets





 Martial Arts


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Journal Entries:
11/30/2016 1:31:47 PM
Newest picture, a gear set I have that is hardly ever used. Very happy I got to get it laced on someone again though :-)

11/30/2016 1:31:37 PM
Newest picture, a gear set I have that is hardly ever used. Very happy I got to get it laced on soneone again though :-)

10/12/2016 7:10:08 AM
Disqualified even for a converaation simply because I am a variation of sadist. *sigh* You know, even sadists crave intelligent conversations over being evil in their own way...

5/30/2016 12:45:29 AM
After 400 feet of rope and 480 knots, the new cage is done.

4/22/2016 11:59:24 PM
2 new pictures added, hope you all like them as much as I did naking them happen.

2/13/2016 6:53:49 PM
Just gave Midori her flogger tonight, she loved it and they have gotten raving reviews all weekend.

1/21/2016 11:25:52 PM
Flogger handles complete, need to make the falls now. Anyone interested in seeing pictures when they are complete?

1/15/2016 3:43:05 AM
And we have another winner :-P Me: Greetings and good morning to you, would you care to chat with a gentleman's sadist today and make a new friend? Or are you seeking something more specific at this point in time? If you are not interested in chatting, I understand and ask that you tell me so I know not to bother you in the future. Just being respectful. Sir W Them: No thank you. Youre too young but i appreciate your interest. Best of luck Me: If I may ask, to young to be what? To be serious about the bdsm lifestyle? Just wondering. Sir W Them: First no dom comes to,a sub addressing himself as sir or master. Its baf manners and bad protocoljust not done. Im looking for an older seasoned dom. Doms that are comfortable in who they are dont need to be addressed by titles. Theres a time and place and respect is earned.,best wishes in your search. (Post this message I was blocked so 99% sure she will not read this) Me: I am sorry to think that my calling myself a Sir, a respecting yet humble term, is as offensive as someone demanding that you address them as Master, Dom or Lord. I require no one I message to address me with ANY title and I even go as far as openly invite them to address me as W. The use of Sir for me is only for those who "serve" me in person when they are. I use it at the end of my messages the same way you used tc at the end of yours, as a signiture. As for being "seasoned" or experienced, I have over 10 years in the bdsm community and 6 of them were under a mentor in New England I had the honor of meating at a rope convention. I have more experience then 95% of those my age and do not take this world lightly. It is a pity that you seem fit to dismiss me strictly on the bases of my age and what you consider experience. I also reached out to you for the hopes of a friendship but seeming as you dutifully believe I am only using the bdsm world for what most here seek, sex, it does not surprise me that you so quickly pass judgement on me and move me into that category of degenerates. So, with all respects, good day to you and best of luck in your search as well. Sir W *I find it interesting that even the older/experienced subs and slaves here still don't know how to recognize respect when it is shown nor know how to give basic respect when show it.*

1/14/2016 8:16:22 AM
New gear arrived :-) Very happy today.

1/13/2016 1:09:48 AM
Dam my brain.....why must thou tease me with beautifully twisted ideas?

11/22/2015 10:47:21 AM
Picture #6 is the result of 240 feet or rope and a twisted mind.

11/7/2015 7:49:05 AM
The majority of you females make me sick to my stomach, truely sick. Sorry to spoil your parade but grow up and leave the 50 Shades expectations behind. I have been part of the bdsm world for a number of years, nearly the equivalent of the the years I had been on the outside and I need to tell you all something. There isn't enough people on the top of the bdsm cake to satisfy all of you. "I want nothing short of the best and fuck all you others who are less then the best." is your statements. Well guess what, the tens of thousands of subs and slave who seek that are searching for the proverbial needle in a forest. The number of "Top Tier" menlmbers of the BDSM community number less then 100. And I 99% of you seeking to be taught, trained and lead will never feel their hands in the physical form. Sure, read their book, watch their films, listen to their audios. Dote over their words and if they were poetry but know this. Their rise to the rank they are came through yeads of training, trials and practice. And you think that just because you come along, bat your eyes and believe you are the perfect thing since sliced bread, that they will take you and teach you for a lifetime to come? Sorry to burst your bubble but those of the top tier aren't really interested in that. Now you may be asking, what does a 30 something know about the elites of the bdsm world? How does he know their minds, agendas and hopes. Well, because I stand with them at the top of this cake. No, I am not at the top with my friends, I am a few tiers below. Yes, I admit that, I have studied this world for a large part of my live but know there is still FAR more I need to learn. I have however learned from some of the best, talked with them as friends and learned more from their friendships then most do from classes. I have a greater understanding of lifestyle dynamics then many have who sit in on every discussion panel they can. And I have a deeper understanding of body structure and reactions from different forms of play then most who sit in on demos have. It is true that I still have a long road to travel, we all do. But when I come across someone who upon their first step demand the greatest perfection there is and wish for nothing less short of that, I big you leave and come back when you have grow up. This lifestyle is not about the final destionation but the journey one takes to reach the pinnacle of their desired style. And that journey will not be able to happen if you seek out the top tier and experience the best. Do this before you have a chance to grow and ever experience beyond that one will be nothing more then a dry spot in your mouth the waters of kink will never quench. Have some patients, evolve with someone willing to grow with you and experience things you are ready for. Words of wisdom from the greats, Sir W

11/4/2015 4:44:10 AM
I need a model......

11/2/2015 12:36:22 AM
The more time I spend in the bdsm world, the more comedic things I see and hear from people on this site. "Hi, I am ______ and I am 18, looking to explore the bdsm world as a fulltime, no limit slave." Yea, good luck with that, you have next to no idea what "you" are asking for. "I have no limits at all." BULLSHIT! I will call anyone out on that statement with 1 statement: No limits huh? Great, I've always wanted to try amputation. Another thing is "I am only interested in exploring bdsm with a mature Mistress for xyz reasons." Since when do female dominants do anything a male dominant can't? Other then offer a different set of genitals, male and female Dominants are equal. And to spin off that topic, since when does age become the deciding factor in the amount of knowledge or experience someone has? Granted there are cases where age does mean more time within the bdsm realm but not every person who is in their 50's or 60's has been doing this since their teens. Personally, I have had peo people in their 50's approach me and ask me to teach them something. So stop with the bullshit standards people. Learn about who you are considering, explore ALL avenues and everyone. Most of us aren't "Mr. Grey", a lot of us have to work for a living and you should to. Welcome to the real bdsm world, not your fantasy where you are pampered, spoiled and get to do nothing but suck a cock once in a while. End rant.

10/11/2015 11:15:51 AM
I need someone to go eat sushi with........

7/28/2015 12:35:59 PM
New bondage gear arrived :-) Very excited, now to move towards my next project.

6/22/2015 10:11:12 PM
What does it take for an experienced member of the bdsm community to get a responce to a basic question of curiosity? Not a message degrading or accusing another member of the community, not one demanding you to submit to my every whim, not one ordering you to leave your current partner because I believe myself to be superior. We are all humans, all.people and all members of the community. We all have questions to ask and not all of us are fake, posers or wanna-bes. Is it really that hard to show respect to a kind message asking something non-personal or inquiring for friendship? Is it?

3/5/2015 9:14:51 PM
I have fear. Fear for the next generation for having to be subjected to the false leads and advice given from the 50 Shade series. I worry what they will do and how many new commers will be hurt because of it.

11/16/2014 10:14:36 PM
It's a wonder that those who are seeking to start a life as a slave (and even a submissive) can miss one of the basic principles of their desired status, Respect. Now I understand that not all that come to this site are seeking either a friend or even men but really people, atleast speek up and voice you feelings. I know I am not entitled to your responce (I don't believe that simply because I identify as a Dom that you must bow to my every step) but if I take the time to write out a message to you please take the time to write something in return. Even if it is to voice your disinterest, I welcome and will respect your decission. Is that to much for this young gentleman to ask? Respect share when respect is given?

9/12/2012 1:45:08 AM
Question to the populist, how old does one have to be to considered to have any amount of knowledge to share? Better yet, how old does one need to be before they are no longer discriminated against, thinking that age=greater wisdom, and they move out of the novice category of the bdsm world? All are welcome to answer.

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