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| I feel its necessarily to specify that I am open specifically to friend requests from women and couples with interest in the cuckolding lifestyle. I've been getting too many requests from single men (bulls, sissy's and/or cuckoldwannabe's). I have nothing against you but since I am here to find a serious LTR with a woman friending me is a waste of time. I like to friend cuckold couples because I enjoy learning about their perticular arrangements, how they progressed to being a cuckold couple, what issues might have arisen along the way, intereresting experiences etc... I've known this is what I want for over 20 years so knowing people who live and practice this lifestyle is a confirmation that I'm not a) weird and b) it will be possible for me to be in this sort of Relationship one day soon.
I have been back in Montreal for one year and one key goal for coming back and starting up my new life in Montreal is to be finally find a suitable match for being in a LTR that involves cuckolding. Living on the island of Roatan (off the coast of Honduras) was a great experience but not a place where I had a good chance of being in a kinky relationship. I am, as always, definitely open to relocating for the right person. I'm really looking to the future and wanting to settle down and build a life where I work to live not live to work. **
I am a single happy, healthy and relatively fit (working on improving my fitness by going to the gym 5 x a week, current photos available upon request) white male 45 Canadian currently living in Montreal Canada. Exactly one year ago I came back to Montreal after living almost 3 years in Roatan, Honduras for a needed pause in my life and to work as a scuba diving instructor. I have also been a massage therapist for 19 years and an entrepreneur for 21 years. I write internet columns and am a business mentor amongst other things. I am now venturing into writing novels, self help books and bios. I am avery balanced person and I'm generally in a good mood. I like to laugh, love Learning, reading, hanging out with friends and great conversations. I'm very easy going and get pleasure from giving pleasure and I'm looking for a person who is ostensibly the same. I am 6ft tall, broad shouldered and robust with a few pounds to lose which, like I mentionned, I am in the process of doing but if you prefer thin skinny guys then I'm probably not what your looking for. I also should mention that I have a Prince Albert Piercing and I presently wear a 0 gauge horseshoe ring in it.
Some of the basic things I am looking for are listed here: A single woman (human lol, race and color is unimportant as long as were attracted to each other) for a long term relationship between the ages of 25 to 35 (+ or - a few years on each end will be considered) that is looking for a hotwife/cuckold lifestyle Relationship. I am attracted to women anywhere between slim to voluptuous. I have no true experience as a cuckold so if you do not, it will be a first for both of us. If you are experienced and my lack of real experience worries you, I can only say that I have wanted this sort of Relationship looking back for at least 25 years and know with every pore in my body that this is something I want. That being said I'm extremely well versed in all aspects and facets of cuckolding lifestyles and this many years before it was trendy. In establishing this Relationship, i can provide guidance for a woman who is novice without forgetting that she is to lead the Relationship. I don't want to Top from the botttom. For someone who is experienced, I only require that communication be a two way street when establishing the parameters of said Relationship, in the begining and as it evolves as well. Although I'm sure as it progressed I will be more and more comfortable with my role as the cuck and our life as an otherwise "normal" couple.
I am looking for a non-smoker (no offence to anyone but I hate kissing an ashtray and this is a hard limit for me. If you're are a smoker it might be the reason you've been looking for to quit and substitute that nasty oral habit for another nasty oral habit lol. A social drinker and an occasional toker is fine as well but if you indulge in the herb on a daily basis that might be an issue. I want a healthy, romantic, frienship based relationship that would incorporate cuckolding at some point but not be the sole focus of the relationship. I'm not looking for someone into polyamory but someone who wants a relationship that falls somewhere between hotwifing and cuckoldry. I like many aspect related to cuckoldry and some of my favorites are chastity play, pegging and mild humiliation. S&M, B&D is something I've delved in the past and can be fun but comes second to cuckoldry for me in terms of excitement but could be woven in by my significant other quite easily. I'm not a pure physical masochist, not into cutting or anything to do with blood, infantilsm, scat or animals (hard limits). That being said I'm a big guy and can take some pain but the pain itself is not a source of pleasure for me its more the mental aspect of being punished and put into my subspace. I love tease and denial, and mental games so and in that sense only am I a masochist.
I know the perils of online dating and long distance relationships but until I can find someone local whom I can share all facets of my life with this will have to be a starting point. I have been hurt before so I can be weary but if you are truly the person I'm meant to be with you will understand and have patience. Persons with piercings and tattoos also welcome. Those of you into financial dom, abuse, scamming, those with mental issues please abstain from responding to my ad.
A Dom female wrote me and was kind enough to share with me an observation she made about my profile. She mentionned that a casual reading of my profile revealed somewhat of a lobsided interest in cuckolding and that one doesn't get a sense of who I am in real life. It is a fair point to be honest however I think that what I am hoping for is for someone to actually go through my entire profile and read some of the things I've posted and actually start a conversation with me. I'm pretty easy going and go with the flow person and nothing is off limits during the getting to know each other process. Since I value friendship above all else and consider it "the" building block for a successfull Relationship. It seems to me reasonable therefore to take some time to really try to learn about one another. Also I feel that this is a kinky web site and its here that we can display what turns the wheels Inside our little heads. Of course there is more to life than a cuckold lifestyle but it is something that I want to have as a component in my next Relationship and after nearly 25 years of wanting this it certainly isnt a fad or experimentation. What form it will take depends on my Partner and I decide to do together. Please read on.
I am looking for a woman that is looking for a real loving and caring relationship that involves cuckolding to a certain degree. Please, as I'm sure you don't want your time wasted, take the time to get to know me as you would anyone you might get serious about. Do the due diligence. I'm looking for a real connection, a best friend, a lover, a partner in life not just a kinky person to fulfill my fantasies. I am kinky and I accept that now but I am also a hopeful romantic full of love for life and others and am looking for the same. I think investing the time to find the right person is essential to make the right choice. I have waited this long so I can wait a little longer and so should you. Pessimist say that the internet is not the place to find love but fact is 1 out of 5 relationships (20%) today start on the internet so it definitely happens.
If you have questions, comments, concerns please feel free to leave me a message and don't hesitate as I am quite down to earth, friendly and respectful. I respond to everyone who is respectful of me in a timely manner.
**I know your out there and I’m here waiting for you my love.**
Namaste
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