The irony of this place is to put people who are like minded together. But in doing so, it has created an issue between Dominants and slaves or submissives. The dominants come off crass and bitter like little boys when they are denied a new toy and the submissives or slaves come away angry, feeling that they wasting time.
Even the most deviant of the slaves out there need to be taken care of because well damn, killing them or breaking bones is just wrong. Whether a pain slut, bitch, wanting to be used as a hucow, or no rights but life, they need to be cared for. Tenderness can break a slave just as much as a beating.
As far as the slave side of things, well I don't know that side well, as all I can see is their journal entries as they are angry and made about wasted time. I have dealt with fakes and scammers. It's part of the internet game. It always was and will always be. So take the time to find out if it is, then when you find out just put it out there to warn others.
Now I won't deny some anger is allowed but when all civility leaves the discussion, it kills any level of respect on both sides. Time is what it takes in discussions especially of something as important as serving. It's an investment and if someone does take the time to write you be gracious and just say thank you but no thanks. How long does it really take? Yes I understand the hundreds of thousands of emails that end up in your inboxes but common courtesy.
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