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	Hello, I am Mistress Raiana. A training Mistress with 20 years experience. I do not play games, swap pics, chat or Domme online. I am casual, real and upfront. I am interested in any fe/male slave/subs, couples looking to learn, beginners and anyone sincere about the lifestyle. I have been searching for a full time slave for years, but have yet to find them. My expectations are very high. You must be able to relocate, secure in most aspects of life and ready to be taken over, completely. No exceptions. Contact Me for more info. I only want sub/slaves that are clean, healthy and discreet. You must be willing to contend with slave training, physical and sexual submission, honesty and the ability to be open to your feelings and desires. I have a private application you will fill out covering; questions, rules, instructions and commands. My deion- 5'11, medium dirty blonde hair, blue eyes, casual dress and BBW 250+. I feel I am Preportioned well and quite strong. I believe BDSM is about Discipline, Communication, Respect and Eroticism. I am not interested in sexual encounters. There is much more to this lifestyle, than sex. My hard limits; children, animals, edge play, some medical and scat. I make and love to use My floggers. I focus a great deal on body flogging and "sub space". I enjoy different forms of rope bondage as well. Please leave your ego at the door. Don't think you know it all, no one does.. I expect My slaves/subs to run errands, do chores and contribute to/for time, space, equipment and what I may need or want. This is not a free ride for either of us. I am not a Pro, but I DO expect you to pay your way in one way, or another.. If this bothers you, you are not commited and you can continue looking elsewhere.. When you approach Me on here, have respect and don't bother with one line questions or comments. Tell Me who you are, as a person. Why you have contacted Me, specifically. Tell Me about BDSM experiences. I want to know if you are sub or slave and know the difference. I want a confident individual, not someone without self-worth and dignity. If I don't feel you have put enough effort into your letter, I will not put effort into a reply. Respect My wishes and I will respect yours. I will study you and teach, you. The more you learn, the better you will be treated and rewarded.. Mistress Raiana

3/26/2014 8:08:39 AM

Time passes and the strong desires of a Domme calm with life and chaos, but They are always there, waiting.. Waiting to find not just a sub or a slave, but The one I crave to give My power to. The one I must claim. Caught off guard recently, she walked in. Sarcastic and sassy enough to recieve my hand on her ass, yet smart and attentive enough not to offend. She senses us.. She is intrigued. She questions. The connection to her begins to build immediately. One single look into her eyes and it is writen. I will have her. We will claim her as our own. She walks into my soul and kneels.. The power has awakened..Risen I allow Myself to feel that Power again. To feel My muscles tighten and the very thought of her within my grasp. I see the sadistic playfulness in My loves eyes.. We must have her. I hear the words, yes Ma'am. Yes Mistress. My body twitches with decadent thoughts and erotic visions. This temptress has captivated My being. With all this craving, we taste her needs. We play with her fantasies.. and then, achingly, we wait.. How dare she awaken My desires.. How dare she make Me wait. But our day will come...

9/17/2013 8:54:12 AM

Why is this a sight dedicated to S/m, yet no one seems to know the meaning of this dynamic? Game players, frauds, idiots.. When I finally think I found someone as real as I am, it ends up being nothing but a waste of time.. So, let Me explain.. If you are submissive and looking for part time training, you must state it. You Must tell Me who you are, What you want, specifically, when your last physical was(proof required)and why you feel I would be the right Mistress for you.. If you are a slave.. You want a full-time, 24/7 commitment. You will tell Me every detail of your life. What you do in your career (yes, I demand you have one as I am not giving out a free ride.) You Must tell Me the details of your personal life. Hobbies, significant people, why you feel you are a slave, how you would manage to transfer all aspects of your life into My control and your physical health.. If you do not, don't expect a response..

9/15/2009 7:42:47 PM

I sit here, reading through My mail today and wonder if it could just be a sick waste of time?

Maybe you are some punk kid that loves playing games. Well, if you are, you scored your points! Have fun with it, but be careful. you could be playing with some pretty scary people.
If your a woman, claiming to be submissive, yet intimidated by the power of another woman, then why waste time talking to Her and then give attitude? Just don't talk to Dommes...

If you are someone that needs to type all sorts of twisted stories to women, just to get your rocks off... I hope it was worth it. It must be lonely jacking off in your own hand everyday...

I would have gladly watched you grow and learn. I would have shown you much about yourself.

I am a strong and compassionate woman and with compassion comes an understanding that everyone has their own rights to their dreams, goals and requests. I would have allowed you, yours.

I understand what pain does to a person. How pain can control, mutilate, destroy, change, resurrect, transform or heal a person.

I understand what being taken willingly and not, feels like. I know the look in the eye of a person that just wants to give up. I also know what that feeling is, to want to be enslaved. To be disciplined, commanded and used.

I do not know everything, nor will I ever. But I have tasted many things in life already and I know what I want and what I am capable of doing.

you may have had a laugh or maybe even ran away. Who knows, maybe your just busy and if so, you owe Me a simple apology and some serious communication..

But you, the low life that has no respect for yourself, let alone for Me.. The disgusting pervert, jacking off in the corner of the local adult store or the sex craved sleaze ball, looking for anything you can get... Even you, give Me topics and warning to look for.. Even if it's a lot of time spent, it's always interesting, to say the least.

YOU are not real, honest, or sincere and I pity you, because I know, that I AM...

9/9/2009 9:59:35 AM

For 18 years I have talked to and met, several dozen people, claiming to be either submissive, or slaves.
Out of these people, I would say at least 70% were just looking for kinky sex. So that leaves 30..
Out of that 30%, I would say at least half of them wanted to be submissive because they were in their mid forties, with a family and career and too much pressure. So therefore just basically wanted to be controlled for the simple fact of needing to, for just a second, feel they weren't responsible for anything other than themselves. Not too mention, married to the same woman and life has damned the sex life and Domination is much easier on the soul than "cheating". Those that don't want to do chores, or take a good flogging, but if I want to dress them up, humiliate them and use them for sexual pleasure, their all for it.. No, but thank you.
So, now I'm down to 15%.. Well, I'll say 5% of that is a good submissive, eager to learn and submit, but can only do so on a part time basis, due to life issues. Which is fine, but then there are another 5% that start out claiming to be a true slave. Respectful, eager and entertaining to talk with. They claim they will vow all of life and limb to be your slave. They will work hard in every way. Until you begin talking of commands, chores, household needs, My needs, daily discipline and learning, plans of investing physically, financially and emotionally, in the future, running errands, working both in and out of the house and keeping up on daily routines and tasks and suddenly, they disappear and become part of the original 70%
So, you thought being a slave would be easy? Maybe a free room if you crawl around and act cute? Maybe a little spanking?
Hmm, think again..
So, where are My other 5% (that may be stretching it) ???
I can't imagine there aren't any true slaves left? If not, then perhaps a new submissive looking to tell someone what they have been craving. Looking to be honest with themselves, with Me and learn? Or a submissive who's been in the lifestyle long enough, knows what they want and feels they would be compatible with Me?
I can offer honesty, knowledge and a safe space to feel free. Come talk to Me if you are sincere.
If I'm not the Mistress you have imagined, then continue on, until you find Her.
Be safe, be sane, listen to your body and know your limits.
BDSM is a balance of control.
Without the submissive, your not left with Dominants, your just left with a bunch of frustrated, bitchy people wanting to slap someone....