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Pan Female Dominant, 47,  Santa Clarita, CA, California
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Treat me as a Goddess.... Just don't expect me to be one!

I am currently looking for playmates, boys and girls (under 45), who know their place, those that want to serve and to be punished for their indiscretions.

I do not dominate "long distance". Real contact only. Do not contact me, for an on-line, telephone or web cam relationship. I will not respond to you! Also, do not offer to relocate for me. You may contact me, after you're already local.

Attention all posers, wanna-bees and other loosers
: If you're not ready to show up, don't bother me, do not waste my time. If I agree to have coffee, lunch or dinner with you, be ready to pay for it. If you can't afford it, don't bother.
Don't ask me what I would do to you, it's in my profile! I am not here to provide you with jerk off material.

I get quite attached to my pets. Although, I am not looking for a 24/7 relationship, I want... no, I need your devotion and an emotional commitment. The limitations of your vanilla life will be respected, but, I'd expect you to have most weekends free, especially Sat nights.

I will want you at my side at the D/s events I attend (yes, that means, in public), and if I tell you to be naked and on a leash, you better not deny me. I do not mind, if you are shy, but you will get over it and do as you are told. I may call upon your services at other times or I may not, time will tell.

What am I looking for in a submissive?
boys and girls, under 45, pets not objects. I like young ones, or young looking ones. Yes, that's my kink, take it or leave it.
Fawning is a definite plus. I want to know, that when you are with me, other women do not exist. That does not mean, that you would not be able to talk to others, and I would always want you to be polite, but... I hope you get it , but if you don't, just ask me.

I do not play in private, unless I really get to know you. My mind is made up, don't try to change it. NO! I do not need to compromise.
Our "play" sessions will happen at the Lair de Sade(N.Hollywood) or possibly other BDSM clubs. It costs money to attend a function at a private club, be ready to pay for it. I ask for no tribute, but I will not pay your way in.

Don't ask to be added to my friends list, unless, I already know you, in person.

If you are going to contact me... please, do me the honor of checking your message for spelling and basic grammar. Why does it matter? Because, I want to know, that you took your time and made an effort to impress me. And please, if you don't have a face picture in your profile, include one or two, with your message.
Congratulations! you've made it to the very end. Thank you.











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 Dominant Female

 Santa Clarita, CA 


 5' 1"

 160 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Submissive Male

Sub/Sub Couples


 Musical Theater

 Renaissance Faires


 Body Worship




 Genital Punishment

 Local BDSM Community

 Public Exhibition

 Being Massaged

 Foot Worship

 Hair Pulling


 Needle Play

 Public Play




 Wax Play


 Going to the Opera

 Anal Play

 Breast Play

 Cane / Crop Discipline

 Corner Time


 Electrical Play

 Fire Play

 Knife Play


 Medical Play

 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Control

 Oral Service

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay


 Speech Restrictions



 Board Games

 Online Chatrooms

 Role Playing Games

 Science Fiction

 Lifestyle BDSM





 Curious About:



 Sensory Deprivation

 Suspension Bondage




 Gas Masks




 Hard Limits:



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Journal Entries:
11/25/2009 10:27:00 PM
My friends might have noticed that my "role" has changed a couple times, recently. For a time, I was feeling that the title of Domme, had put me in a box. Like there were certain ways I was expected to conduct myself. I have discovered, after much soul searching, that being a Domme, I alone, decide what kind of Domme I am to be.
My friend, Lady Yvette, once told me "You are a Domme, it is your world, you make the rules". I thought, I heard what she had said, but it wasn't until right now, that those words have finally landed.
Mine, is the moral code and rules of conduct, that is most important for me to follow. And if I have set a goal for myself, I will follow my motto "Oh what the fuck, do whatever it takes".

7/7/2009 10:38:41 AM
some boys are a true delight...
it is so nice to find the ones that posses the delicate balance between doing things for my pleasure and not being a door mat.

5/23/2009 11:01:37 AM
WTF, a text message?... Of course, what better way to let someone know, that your relationship is over. DAMN! it wasn't even a relationship, yet, we were just getting to know each other. Then why does it hurt so much? Why does it feel like a hard punch to my gut? or maybe it's just my bruised ego? Pets, yes that's what I look for, pets. But that kind of attachment comes with a higher price. Perhaps, it is my own fault for getting so attached. Have you ever brough a new puppy or kitten home with you. Gave it all your attention and nurturing. It cuddled up with you at night and it made you feel so warm and fuzzy. But then, one day you came home and it had run away... Yep, that is the feeling that I have right now. How un-Domly of me. But hey, what the fuck, I'm only human.

2/6/2009 12:19:45 PM

A rant...

"can we meet 4 coffee at 7-11?"

this was a message I received, this morning, from someone I have never communicated with before. Yes, this was his opening line.
His profile has no picture, nor did he include one with his message. But, it does list "fine dining", as his only dislike. LOL... I could have guessed that one.

So, should I jump in my car and drive 92mi (that's how far he is from me, according to his profile), to meet this gem?


11/2/2008 11:37:46 AM
(how to convert a vanilla guy, an open mind required)

He was an instant hit, at the Lair.
It is almost amazing the ease that he has with people, striking up conversation with strangers and them responding to him, as if they were his life long friends. Needless to say, he took to the environment at the Lair, like a fish to water. He was a sponge, he seemed almost drunk with the excitement of this new experience and I so enjoyed his enthusiasm.
I asked if he was ready to try it, and he almost jumped to it, he was so eager.
I really liked how he responded to the negotiation, he didn't expect it and was so pleased to be able to voice his concerns and ask for guilty pleasures, although, I made it perfectly clear, that it was up to me, if his requests would be indulged. "Please, just pay attention" he said, I told him, that is was my responsibility as the Domme to do so, what I did not tell him, is that my attention was solely on him, that entire night.
I must tell you, watching him undress was a delight... No, it was not the way he did it, for he was out of his clothes in a matter of seconds, but just the sight of that young supple flesh and the fact that he was "ready and at attention" made my heart beat a little faster. I started with the rope, nothing complex, just a pleasure for my eyes, the black rope against his skin looked divine. I put the cuffs on his wrists and strapped him to the cross... "you get to face the wall", he was a bit surprised but didn't resist...
I had to keep reminding myself to use restraint, I wanted to devour him, but it was not my intent to push way past what he was willing to take, not for his first time. He took a lot more pain than I had anticipated, and he enjoyed it, his eyes were glossed over and he was flying high. I took him down from the cross and brought him to his knees. My hands around his neck felt so right, but I didn't take him far, just enough to make him gasp a bit. He looked up at me, then raised his arms and embraced me around the waist, then he put his head upon my breast.
"You've had enough for tonight" I whispered and kissed his forehead.

When it was all over and he got dressed, we shared a hug and then he said "work will never be the same again".

P.S. he is the one in my new pictures

9/30/2008 12:15:53 AM

...what a concept.

I have heard from many people, that everything you do to a sub, you should be willing to experience yourself...
For a long time, my answer has been "no way, I am allergic to pain!"

Well, I decided that I would give it a try...
and I have discovered, that I am still, very much, allergic!!!!!!!

So, I would rather give then to receive, does that make me a bad Domme?
or am I just a giver?
It matters not, for as my dear friend, Ms Yvette says:
"It is my world, I make the rules!"

selfish? perhaps, but I am The Domme, it is all about me!

6/17/2008 10:35:49 PM
Last Sat turned out to be a wonderful experience. It wasn't planned, but then some times, acting on your insticts, can be exactly the right thing for everyone involved.

4/11/2008 11:12:23 PM
wow, I can't believe how busy my life has been lately. juggling 2 jobs and a family, and making time for fun isn't easy, but I am very happy and feel energized. I'm ready to take on the world :) so c'mon boys and girls, bring it on!

2/27/2008 12:14:45 PM

to love or not to love?  

Love bites!...

so what? we still want it and seek it out. Being in love is worth it!

Yes, our hearts get broken over and over again, but , I hope none of you, my friends, become so cynical, as to ever turn away from love.
So, express it any way you wish, but please, show someone you love them.

OOHHH, I just realized: the ones I love, get bitten harder....


1/24/2008 10:58:16 AM
You may notice, that all the previous journal entries have the same date.... That is because I changed my name on this site and copied over the journal entries, that I felt were important to share.

1/24/2008 10:56:30 AM
Happy New Year! wow, 2007 is over, and what a year it was. I have learned so much about myself and others. It is a sad fact, that the more submissive men I get to know, the less I trust them. Why must they play games? My #1 rule is: 100% honesty, if you can't share your thoughts or feelings with me, why share anything at all? Don't get me wrong, I have not given up on men, I like them too much to do that, but I will be even more selective in my choices, because I do get attached. I am allergic to pain, especially the emotional kind. My first lesson in the New Year came from Kane, I went to an Insight at the LAir de Sade, that he was presenting. Kane said: men lie, because it works!... What a revelation! That's right, men lie, because women are gullible enough to believe them. It gets them a foot in the door... Well, this woman has had enough, I will not settle! Anyone who chooses to lie to me, is gone, just like that, I do not care about the reasons. I have nothing to hide, I am 100% transparent and I expect no less from those that claim their submission to me. So, I look upon this New Year with resolve and determination, that those who seek out my companionship, are with me for all the right reasons. Bring it on, gentlemen!

1/24/2008 10:54:01 AM
My dear boys and girls, YES, this is all about ME!I will take into account your vanilla life and the need for discretion, I will want to know about your likes and dislikes, I will respect your hard limits. But, I will push your boundries, I will experiment and I will expect you to be flexible and understanding about my needs and desires. I expect 100% honesty, for we must be able to trust each other, in a relationship such as this, if there is not trust, we got nothing.There must be chemistry between us, I will not want to have anything to do with you, unless I find you attractive and I need to know that you desire me, or this simply will not work. I do not have a type that I am attracted to. So only a face to face meeting will tell me, if you're the one I seek.
I am currently searching for very special pets that I can call my own. I am looking for boys and girls that are eager to please, as my needs and wants might change on a whim. I have been known to bite and scratch and I like teasing. BTW, I don't bite hard enough to draw blood. I enjoy sensual play and will touch you in very intimate ways, if you're not OK with that, then you aren't what I'm looking for. I do respect the limitations that our vanilla lives often place on us and try to be reasonable. But when you are with me, you can expect to do as you're told or suffer the consequences. I will most likely ask you to come to the Lair de Sade, for our first meeting, it does not mean we will play, I will get to know you first.

1/24/2008 10:52:13 AM
A Queen is proud of herself. She respects herself and others. She is aware of who she is. She neither seeks definition from the person she is with, or does she expect them to read her mind. She is quite capable of articulating her needs.A Queen is hopeful. She is strong enough to make all her dreams come true..... She knows love, therefore she gives love. She recognizes that her love has great value and must be reciprocated. If her love is taken for granted, it soon disappears.A Queen has a dash of inspiration, a dabble of endurance. She knows that she will, at times, have to inspire others to reach the potential God gave them. A Queen knows her past, understands her present and moves toward the future.A Queen knows the Creative Energy. She knows that with this the world is her playground, but without she will just be played. A Queen does not live in fear of the future because of her past. Instead, she understands that her life experiences are merely lessons, meant to bring her closer to self knowledge and unconditional self love. I KNOW, I HAVE IT GOING ON! So I shall Keep ON, Keeping On!

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