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Hello all. I am a 47 year old dominant man from Reno, Nevada. I work for the State in a Law enforcement occupation. Like a man in uniform ladies? I have had an interest in BDSM for the past 12 years and have had the pleasure of a few experiences with ladies who had various degrees of submission. Unfortunately none of these experiences have led to a full one on one relationship with any of the participants. But it has made me know that I definitely want to have a BDSM style relationship in my life from here on out. I also belong to a local BDSM Community but aside from attending a few munches with novice subs who were afraid to go to a function alone I haven't had any other involvement with it.

As far as what submission and the lifestyle means to me. I believe that the man in a relationship should take the lead as the caretaker and protector of the submissive. I come from a very conservative background and have some very old fashioned views of gender rolls in a family. I think that BDSM is an extension of those conservative beliefs with the man as the protector and the woman as his supportive helper.

http://bdsm-sexperts.blogspot.com/2009/02/1950s-household.html

Also being conservative I don't want the lifestyle to be a 24/7 type or relationship. I need to have control over the relationship and the submissive. I have talked to a couple of submissive's who are in slave/owner relationships and it sounds very appealing to me. However I don't want my submissive to be a door mat. I want my submissive to be someone who works, has friends of her own, a family that she will keep in contact with etc. I would want her opinion on important matters and would make my decisions taking her opinions into consideration. I have often described my ideal relationship as Ward and June Cleaver with kinky sex.

With the kinky sex being mentioned let me describe what I like and am interested in. Like I mentioned above I have had a few experiences with submissive's and this has included handcuff bondage, hair pulling, verbal humiliation, spanking, making the sub crawl, knife play, gun play unloaded of course, forced oral sex and a couple of role plays with me in uniform. I have especially loved the spanking and would like to role play a daddy daughter or mean teacher naughty student fantasy some time. I also would be interested in participating in rape fantasy role playing which I have had the pleasure of doing a few times already. I don't think I have any limits except the usual, No scat, pee, children, animals etc. I also don't want to be involved in any activity that would out myself to the community. No exhibitionism or anything like that. I would be very interested in a submissive that is bi sexual and would want me to be involved in her girl on girl play either as a participant or as an observer.

There are several areas that I want to expand my knowledge in. The Japanese rope tying is at the top of the list. I want to learn more about this and other types of rope bondage. I also want to play more with breast, nipple and clit torture, slave/owner relationship lifestyles and more extreme forms of submissive training and humiliation. I also want to get a larger toy and BDSM gear collection started. Since I haven't had a permanent submissive in my life I don't have any bondage gear except my work/duty related stuff. Would love to go on a naughty shopping spree with my submissive.

Let me finish by saying this. I am not here to play games. I am seeking a submissive that will be more to me that a sex toy. I am seeking a partner in life. I know I will not be everyone's cup of tea and a lot of people on this site would not be what I am looking for either. But I am willing to give my friendship to everyone I meet on here and I hope to get theirs in return. I am sincere and genuine in what I am looking for and I hope I find someone who will be sincere back to me as well. People talk about “want to be dominates” and I might not be as extreme as what some people want. But in my 12 years I have talked to a lot of “want to be submissive's” as well. So anyone who talks with me please be open minded and honest with me, and you will get the same in return. Thanks for reading all this and let the fun begin!!!!

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BreathplayerF
 
 Age: 32
  Illinois