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I'm purely confident in my nature as a dominant. This is my true self, and I know that I could never betray that nature. Having said that, I don't have any desire to play the traditional, Gorean role of the dominant 24/7.
In fact, I want a girl who, outside of the bedroom, can be my partner on the same level. I'd actually prefer her to be outspoken and intellectual, funny and spontaneous, and really my equal in all respects, except for the sexual.
Further, what I want is a girl not necessarily young, but young at heart. I'm a very firm believer in the old adage that age is just a number, and if we're compatible in spirit, then everything else follows. And by spirit, I really mean energy, disposition, sense of humor, general worldview, and maybe even artistic taste.
I consider myself an artist, though not immodestly so, and I'd be especially pleased to find another creative individual, though this is not at all a requirement. If it was to happen, however, it could be anything from fashion design to graphic art to music to cooking. There are so many artforms I think many of us don't acknowledge; almost anything can be an art, if approached artistically.
Also, her looks are far less important than her perceived sexiness and willingness to be dominated. Although I love a pretty face (who doesn't?), a girl's willingness to think of herself fairly consistently as a highly sexual being is more attractive to me than any preconceived notion of beauty. Though I appreciate the traditional black with which our communities tend to be portrayed, I also adore vibrant colors on a woman, especially if that dress is accompanied by a spunky acknowledgment of her subtle rebellion against the typical, semi-monochromatic aesthetics of BDSM culture.
It's my opinion that our sexual proclivities, whether dominant or submissive, keep us young by maintaining the youthful imagination and fantasies that accompany almost every aspect of this world of ours. To be fully realized, BDSM requires the colorful machinations of an adventurous mind, the possibilities from which are truly endlessly erotic.
Finally, in general, I really consider myself a well-grounded, down-to-earth guy who knows how to take care of a girl, especially a girl who knows how she likes to be taken care of. As far as my pursuits go, I have a day job in the tech industry and I play drums in a band. Despite my day job, I consider myself to be a creative individual first, and a semi-corporate guy second. In addition, I'm both emotionally and financially stable, and I'd like nothing more than to introduce the kind of dominant stability I offer into your life.
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