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Because "I'm looking for something real" is a bit of a cliche here to the point where it's used by fake bots and scammers, let me go into some actual detail.
I used to be involved in the alt lifestyle, swung a flogger, had a St Andrews Cross in my living room, even had a live-in slave for a while, that whole bit. Then, I suppose the more I examined it and was honest with myself, I wasn't really into all the kink. Great if it works for you, but it didn't stick with me.
I think that the society we live in today has come to misunderstand completely the nature of men and women. There are fundamental differences between the sexes beyond just anatomy, and those differences were made to compliment each other. Of course, I am speaking generally, because there are plenty of flavors and preferences from here until next Sunday.
What matters most to me is the dynamic in a relationship. I like responsibility and leadership. I want the woman with whom I am in a relationship to come to a point in which she is eager to submit to me. This doesn't happen over night, because it requires a lot of trust and respect, both of which cannot be demanded or coerced. I am looking for a woman who has that capacity for that submission given that those two have been earned and reciprocated in complimentary fashion by me. I want my woman to affirm the passions in my life, acknowledge my struggles, be a source for comfort when times are rough and a partner to share in the triumphs.
(still updating my profile, please bear with me)
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Well now, it's been geesh, like 2 years since I've written in here. I've been mostly taking care of the things in life: job, car payments, rent, etc etc. I'm starting to get back into the game, as they say.
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Well, I think it's been a good year since I logged back in. I've undergone a few changes to say the least in my life lol.
Anyway, just keeping on keepin on for the moment, looking to get involved in some IT stuff instead of the sales/management I've been doign for 8 some odd years. Change is good, I think, well usually anyway.
Just wanted to keep this a short entry to play catchup since the last one a long long time ago.
-Vin |
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After some time away, I'm looking back to Collar me to make some relationships, friendships to start, and then proceeding from that point.
I'm certainly in no rush for anything at the moment, but rather maintaining for now. Feel free to contact me and chat.
If we have enough common ground to chat on yahoo IM, that's perfectly fine with me.
As far as what's been going on lately in my life? I've recently switched employers, effectively got promoted and a double increase in my pay scale (never a bad thing!).
More to come later! |
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It is truly amazing the way synergy of Dominance and submission can make one feel so alive. It is like raw passion, but not the lustful sense, really... at least not how I mean it. It is the pride of a Man in his submissive or slave that makes him wish to proclaim his elation from the mountain tops.
Everyone has walls, this is true, no matter how small or large, tall or short, wide or narrow they may be. It is something incredible, magnificent to touch someone in a way where those walls are penetrated, broken through as if they never even existed. It isn't necessarily a violent force, or one meant to alter submission to subordination, but rather the knowledge for one to see another's heart, perhaps even soul.
Vulnerability is something that is tricky, and can be as uplifting as it can be detrimental, all depending on the actions and motives of one another. To submissives, I encourage you, when you have found one you can trust, be willing to become weak before his or her eyes. To Dominants, I beseech you, do not cast away your submissive(s) when they have exposed themselves to attack. Rather, use those moments to encourage them, build them up. I assure you, the blossom that begins to bloom from such an interchange will pale all else around you and shake your world. And, when the time comes, with the knowledge that we are not infallible as humans, hurt will threaten to destroy your trust. Do not turn away if there has not be lies between you, but rather hold onto each other that much harder, accept one another.
I tell you this, to anyone who reads my words. Submission is a gift. Dominance is a responsibility. Where Dominance attempts to forceably take submission, it will end in a lesser form... subordination. Obedience may be offered, but it will take far longer to garner a submissive's heart that way, if ever. For some, subordination is satisfactory, it is a material exchange. I assure you, though, it is so much sweeter when it is offered freely to another.
When you have achieved all this, you will know that the price of such a relationship is truly and completely steel.
With sincerity,
Vin |
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Well, I've been on every day, more or less, for the past week or so. To me, I find it ironic how there are many profiles of subs or slaves that say "I am inexperienced, but I do want to learn" or something to that effect, and yet when I write them with the simple offer of conversation as a starting point, I receive no reply.
For once, it would be nice if some of these individuals would at least reply with "no thanks" or "maybe later" or hell, even "F**k you, Sir." It would seem it would be common courtesy when faced with a genuine Man and Master to respond with at least as much.
I must remind myself that being trapped in a young body, I am faced with enduring the stigmata of "age=experience." Then again, the irony is... wouldn't an experienced mind in the body of a 23, almost 24 year old full of vigor be prime?
So, allow me to reiterate my profile. I am open to speaking with just about anyone who contacts me, no matter what you are looking for in life. I'm not in the mood nor am I ever to instantly slap a collar on a girl after a few lines of speech, moreso the case if there is distance involved.
To add to my profile, I look for three things in a girl with a fourth innate characteristic:
1) Basic maturity (accountable for her actions, common courtesies, etc)
2) Honesty
3) A seated desire to be a slave, to learn how to be a slave.
4) Satisfaction in helping another person.
If you are looking for a real Master, someone to hold you to a high standard, support you, and instill discipline into your life, then it wouldn't hurt to send me a "hello."
Whatever your case may be, you are welcomed to write me anyway to chat. Everything, including but not limited to friendship, starts with chatting. Step out on a small ledge only a couple inches from the ground and write me.
Sincerely,
Vin |
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Note: Switching around/putting new pictures up on my profile. If all goes well, they should be up in the next couple of days. |
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| Age: 19 |
| Milton Keynes,
United Kingdom |
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