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| If the following quote resonates with you, email me so we can further discuss this.
"I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don't mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don't mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding." - Anais Nin
It all boils down to one simple concept; one's desire to be in control and another's desire to relinquish control, that is it. My desire is to be in control and your desire is to give up control, simple...but not easy. I do not agree with the notion that everyone claiming to be a Dominant should be called Sir or any other form of title. A title is earned, not given freely. Anyone who demands to be called by a title is insecure and weak, and should be avoided at all costs.
I have a very firm and realistic view of D/s and have incorporated this into my life quite successfully. It does not matter to me whether or not you have experience, but a genuine and sincere willingness to learn and grow. In helping you learn and grow, I also learn and grow. I also believe in balance. Compatibility is key here, not just as Dom and sub but also in hobbies, interests, education, social interactions, values, etc...
I live and work in Maryland, and am seeking a lady who desires to give up control. We both seeks this because this is just who we are. I am naturally Dominant and you naturally want to submit. I am not interested in play partners, one night stands, or anything of that sort. I am seeking a long term committed, possible live in situation with the right lady. Personally, I am physically fit, intense, intelligent, protective, passionate, mature, focused, non-smoker, likes the outdoors, and believes in the words: chivalry, honor and integrity. I have been told I am attractive and handsome, but I will only say that I am easy on the eyes. I adhere to the philosophy of actions speaking louder than words.
I am attracted to ladies who are respectful, kind, athletic, physically fit, intelligent, mature, sincere, honest and loyal to name a few. I am not attracted to ladies who are obese, smokers, heavy drinkers, inconsiderate, and disrespectful. Race is not an issue with me. These are my preferences whether you agree with them or not. I am very good at what I do and am confident in my skills. Make no mistake...I will challenge you both mentally and physically. I am a very passionate and intense person, and you will not be disappointed.
I am not into munches, BDSM parties or anything like that. I walk to the beat of my own drum and will make my own rules and definitions with whomever I am with and what works for us. I am a very private person and equally protective.
If you are intrigued and or have any questions, then email me and we will go from there. I seek authenticity as should you. So, shall we continue this?
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Regardless whether it is punishment, discipline, protocals or whatever...they all primarily focus on one aspect...REINFORCEMENT. It might be varying degrees of reinforcement...but reinforcement nonetheless. Remember...reinforcement serves several purposes at the same time: It reminds the submissive of her desires to give up control, it heightens her awareness of the person she is submitting to, and it modifies bad/incorrect behavior. Every physical act, be it non-sexual or sexual, is meant to reinforce the mental submission first followed secondly by the physical submission. If the submissive does not choose to submit and obey her Dominant mentally first, then the physical submission and obedience will never occur. |
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| Age: 41 |
| Washington,
Washington D.C. |
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