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| I am a dominant sapiophile. Intelligence is a huge turn on for me. A woman who is elegant in manner, very smart, deliciously attractive - and yet very submissive and kinky is the type of lady I find irresistible...and very rare. Combine those qualities with honesty, fidelity, dedication, devotion and a desire to be owned, and I could cherish such a woman forever. A D/s partner who appreciates good wine, excellent herb, and never-ending conversation, and THEN give herself to me to play with and use as I please could steal my heart.
This is not a game or role to me. This is simply the man I've evolved into over the course of my life. This is my normal, no matter how strange or twisted vanilla people see it. The only thing I like in vanilla is ice cream, and only once in a while.
While there is definitely a sadistic streak running through my soul, and I do enjoy tormenting my woman while she is in a completely helpless condition, that's only just one aspect of what I think a D/s relationship is all about. There is also the part where we become best friends, lovers, and hopefully life partners as we explore this exciting D/s life together in the time we have remaining...hopefully years and years! A monogamous, permanent bond is what I eventually seek.
I do not share women with other Doms or men in general. If your thing is moving from man-to-man-to-man for the thrill of the variety of twisted sex, you are NOT the type of lady I seek. The lady who someday becomes my collared sub will belong to me and me alone. Contrary to what some Doms are like, I'm actually somewhat negotiable in some aspects of a D/s relationship, and if there is something that my sub really likes, I see no reason to not indulge her since her happiness and satisfaction are as important as mine.
Constant communication is key. Complete submission is expected, discipline is required, expanding your limits is mandatory, exploring the dark recesses on my mind and your is imperative. I am a Dom - but being affectionate, loving and romantic also comes very naturally to me. I get tremendous satisfaction from bringing my woman to the edge of mind-blowing orgasms...until I push her in all the way.
Yes, '50 Shades of Grey' has exposed our very non-vanilla lifestyle. Many inexperienced women find the 'idea' of it alluring, exciting, dangerous, etc. But being a practitioner of a real D/s life is something different than you've ever known. Experienced ladies know this - newbies should be prepared to submit mind, body and soul...or step away now. This is NOT a fucking game.
My ultimate goal is to find a permanent D/s partner. Any contact to me comes with the explicit condition that you are seeking a permanent, monogamous partnering with a Master - and you would like to be considered by me. You are not married. You can and will relocate if that times comes. I'd like to find a suitable sub by the end of Autumn...make it permanent by the end of winter.
ONE NOTE: Among my interests, you might notice WHIPS. Actually, I'm into floggers and flogging. If you don't know the difference, I'd be happy to teach you.
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If your profile is empty or sparse, I take that to mean you are boring, shallow and uninteresting. Walk on by.
If you have no photos on your profile, send one with your reply, or walk on by.
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