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| After a few years of learning about myself as a Dom, I've realized that what I am looking for may not be easy to find. I want a sub/slave who isn't just looking for a one-time session, but something on-going. If you consider yourself little more than a piece of furniture or a toy to be used and ignored, then I am not the Dom/Master for you. I want a relationship with my sub/slave.
I am not looking for a sub/slave who wants to give up the entirety of who he is. Have your own mind, your own likes, your own dislikes, and your own personality. I may be your Dom/Master, but you are still a human being...and I want to know the man inside the slave.
I want to know your likes and dislikes, your hobbies and interests. I want to know what makes you happy and what makes you sad. I want to find a sub/slave who enjoys life outside of the home as well, and I want to share that life with him. Everything from camping trips and museums to movies and books are things that are better when shared with others. There is a man inside that goes beyond being a submissive, and that is the man I want to get to know.
If all you want is a sexual relationship, without getting to know each other, then I'm not the Dom/Master for you. If, however, you want to find the balance between public and private, then contact me. How we appear in public is not how we'll be in private.
Now, before you email me, there is one thing I need to be perfectly clear on. I have a long-term relationship with a wonderful man, who is not interested in the activities or mindset of BDSM. This world, this lifestyle, is not for him. We are poly and have an open relationship, both romantically and sexually. So, me having an owned slave at my feet is not a problem with him or with me. If that is something you don't want, just say so. My partner knows full-well that I am on here, and I often talk to him about the guys that I have chatted with. This is not a "on the downlow" situation. I am upfront, honest, and forthright with both him, and with any sub/slave that I would consider bringing in to my life. So, if you are open to the fact that your Dom/Master will have a partner other than you, who you will get to know as well, then I welcome a chance to talk to you.
If you'd like to chat, see where things go, or are just looking for someone to talk to, feel free to contact me.
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Wow, I am amazed at how many rude people are on this site. Just because someone sends you an email with a compliment on your profile or pictures, does not mean that it necessarily means anything more than that. The amount of people who are too self-absorbed to answer a simple complimentary email is astounding. If you can't take a simple compliment, and respond with a simple "Thank you," then how do you get along in polite society? |
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Every once in a while I will browse through journals on CM. Each time I do, I get a great chuckle out of the "Goddess" titles some women decide they need and/or deserve, as well as the concept of "tribute." I'll say this much, women like that make me feel very sorry for the straight sub boys out there who deserve to actually be treated like human beings and not just living ATMs.
But, to the subs/slaves, if all you want to do is open your wallet to a self-proclaimed "Goddess," a self-chosen title that will always make me chuckle loudly, then you have a lot to choose from on here. |
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As a follow up to my entry about the "boys Bill of Rights," I just want to say this about what I feel is a perfect summation of my responsibility as a Dom:
The willing submission of a boy is a gift more precious than gold and more fragile than glass. As a Dom, it is my responsibility to protect that gift and make sure, every day, that I am worthy of it. |
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The boys' Bill of Rights:
This was found on another site, and I am copying it here for a reason. Lately, I have had some conversations with boys/slaves/pups who seem to have a misconception about their rights and roles. While, certainly, any submissive-type has the right to voluntarily give up the right to say what does or does not happen to him, I want it to be perfectly clear that no dominant-type (Dom/me, Master/Mistress), has the right to take that away from a boy without his consent. Though I did not write this list, I agree with it fully and want any boy who reads it to understand that he always has rights. His rights can never be taken from him, only voluntarily relinquished.
The boys' Bill of Rights:
1. Every boy has the right to have his body, intellect, and emotions protected by his Dom.
2. Every boy has the right to choose the man whom he serves and to discontinue that service and take his leave without being subjected to physical, mental, or emotional abuse.
3. Every boy has the right to be cared for, disciplined appropriately, and allowed to feel pride in his submission.
4. Every boy has the right to protected sex if he so wishes.
5. Every boy has the right to privacy if he so wishes. No boy can be blackmailed, publicly humiliated, or physically coerced into service without his expressed desire to be so.
6. Every boy has the right to defend himself from physical, sexual, and emotional abuse.
7. Every boy has the right to consent or not to consent to sexual activities.
8. Every boy has the right to seek refuge, counsel, and advice from other subs and Doms without the expectation of sex, money, or any other service in return.
9. Every boy has the right to a physically and emotionally available circle of friends.
10. Every boy has the right to protect his own possessions and finances against intercession, theft, and non-consensual acquisition. |
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