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Please read ALL of this profile before deciding if you would like to contact me. I am NOT interested in being contacted by males who are already in any kind of dynamic, whether vanilla or kink. I AM looking for a sub who has a genuine desire to serve, not one whose primary motivation is sex. You will have a strong desire to engage in  what pleases me over what pleases you. My interests currently include bondage, humiliation, control of your bodily functions, pain play and forced feminisation, but are not limited to those things. You will be interesting beyond what you can offer me in a scene, and had better have a damned good sense of humour.
If you believe you can offer what I require, then you may contact me and tell me why you think you would make a good sub for me.
*Please note, I am not looking for an online relationship, and therefore am only interested in a sub who lives in or near Perth.
12/10/2008 5:07:51 AM
Tut, tut, there are some temperamental subbies out there it seems.

Since my last entry, I have had several more submissives email me, some of whom I have had most enjoyable discourse with, some I have thanked for their approach but advised that they are not what I seek.

Some I have not bothered to reply to - those who send messages greeting me as Mistress - which they do not have permission to do - and saying nothing else.

On one occasion, a greeting of that type was from a self-titled submissive who falls into the category of a 'do-me' sub - pushy and boring and not at all what I seek. I know this, because I have met him before, in real life, not just online. It seems he didn't take kindly to my not responding to his approach immediately - do these people think I have nothing better to do than sit on here waiting for greetings? and requests for chat? when they haven't even bothered to read my profile carefully? This particular submissive doesn't even come close to fulfilling my clearly stated requirements, but appears to have gone off in a snit because I didn't fall at his feet simply because he had emailed me. I know this, because I have since tried to email him to enlighten him as to why his email had not received an immediate response, only to find he had blocked me.

Childish, but not unexpected, in this case.

So, once again, I stress - read my profile before you email me, and do not address me as Mistress unless I have given you permission to do so - I am not Mistress to anyone that I do not own.
11/26/2008 12:41:07 PM
A couple of things I need to stress to those considering approaching me - I am only interested in currently unattached males who are local to me - that is, within a reasonable distance from Perth. A long-distance or online dynamic does not interest me at all - been there, done that, and it does not work for me. Nor does sharing. I am only interested in an exclusive dynamic.
That said, if I have the time, I'm happy to talk to those who do not fit my requirements, as long as it is clearly understood that it is chat only.
So far, the approaches I have received have been respectful and have been appreciated, but none of them have been what I am seeking. Early days!
joy99
 
 Age: 23
  Indiana