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If fat is a deal breaker for you, move on.
If cigarette smoking is a deal breaker for you, move on.

I am a 50 year old Lesbian Dominant and sadist. I have a committed d/s relationship with my partner of 12 years.

So, I am not looking for a 24/7 live-in relationship.

I am seeking a one-on-one bdsm relationship with someone who can bond with me on an emotional level, has free time to devote to our relationship, has the desire to be both service-oriented and play-oriented, and seeks the same sorts of experiences that I do.

The experiences that I seek to share with someone are both mental and physical sensations. The tools or instruments that I would use to elicit these sensations are much less important to me than the sensations themselves.

I am not terribly interested in what I call the surface 'trappings' of bdsm. The whips, chains, floggers, cuffs, and gags are fun, I'm sure, but they aren't something I need to create the type of 'scene' that I seek.

My greatest tools are my mind and my hands. With these tools I can make use of ordinary items to create the sensations we both seek.

The main criteria for a successful match with me is a desire for mental and physical stress as a means to sexual arousal. If sex doesn't involve pain or mental stress, it won't do a thing for me.

So, if you notice in the checklists that I like anal play and you think that's great - because you love anal sex - you may as well move on.

If you love it, and I give it to you I am no different than a nilla lover, or a partner whose goal it is to make you cum. I have no interest in that.

If you achieve orgasm from our play that's fine, but it isn't my goal.

What I seek is someone who gets off on the fear, pain, anticipation, anxiety, and stress of knowing that I will use you for my own pleasure. If that fear, pain, anticipation, anxiety, and stress is what you seek, then we may have something to talk about.


I am looking for a submissive who has fairly mild masochistic desires. I am not 'into' whippings or beatings.

My cravings are satisfied by inflicting more mental discomfort than physical. But, make no mistake, my aim is to create some degree of physical pain.

I am not interested in someone who wants me to beat them into submission. Pain is something I use for our pleasure, not something I use to force submission.

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3/27/2008 10:27:11 PM
Well, it's just not going to work out.....ty for the responses, but Gatlinburg is not going to happen.

2/9/2008 9:13:28 AM
We are working out details for the Smokey Mountain Retreat in Gatlinburg. Date is fairly well set for the weekend of April 11-13. If you are a male submissive and would like to provide service for some very cool Dommes during that weekend, contact me for details.

2/7/2008 12:31:24 PM
Meeting some cool people in March. This is going to be fun! It would be nice if we could meet a new boy/girl or two to make the weekend even more exciting.

*Wondering if J would give us a demonstration using a new boy as vict...I mean volunteer.*

Any submissive men or women near Gatlinburg want to volunteer?

1/3/2008 10:25:08 PM
It looks like the Gatlinburg getaway will be during the week rather than on a weekend. If that works for you, contact me - but do read all of my profile and journal entries before responding. One reference is required!

1/2/2008 9:10:05 PM
I am currently looking for a servant/maid for a weekend in Gatlinburg, TN (early Feb date not set). This is a service *only* position, so if you truly enjoy serving for the pleasure of providing a service, contact me and let's talk. You will be serving 2 lesbians (myself and my submissive partner) by cooking, serving meals, serving drinks throughout the evenings (2 nights - until late), cleaning up, carrying bags, running errands, and basically anything I would require of a maid/servant (no play). In addition to having the opportunity to serve (maid outfit is a plus), you will enjoy a loft bedroom w/private bath in a log cabin in the Smokey Mountains, access to hot tub, meals and lodging are paid (free to you). You are responsible for your own transportation. At least one reference is required.

10/22/2007 8:01:01 PM
I freely admit to being an ageist. Since I am 47, I look for partners within 10 years of my age - younger or older.

In my experience, most people go through different life stages every 10-20 years. Priorities, goals, opinions, and likes/dislikes change with these life stages.

Communication is often difficult enough without adding incompatible life stages to the mix.

10/20/2007 11:32:32 PM
A male submissive is not out of the question for me. However, I look for what I need. If you are focused on your genitalia, you won't get what you need from me.

10/11/2007 6:47:39 AM
Real time meetings are certainly a possibility. However, the relationship I offer is primarily online.

If you do not have the patience to wait for rt meetings until I am sure of you, then don't bother contacting me.

I am not looking for a love-match, but I do expect an emotional bond to form before we play in real time.

10/6/2007 12:19:44 PM
I am in a committed, real life, 24/7, D/s relationship with my lesbian life partner of 9 years.

My partner is a wonderful submissive and serves me well, but she is not a masochist.

This leads me to why I am online. Rather than destroy a successful, fulfilling D/s relationship because one element is missing, I seek an online relationship with a lesbian submissive masochist who is prepared to commit to a long term D/s & S/m online relationship.

If this sounds like something that may be fulfilling for you, contact me and we can get to know one another. Otherwise, have a good day and good luck in your search.

MsWorthy

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speak2niche
 
 Age: 30
  California