My location is misleading for personal reasons, however, I am in Northern Europe. I'm looking for chat - not particularly "hot chat". I'm interested in getting to know interesting and nice gentlemen.

Yes it is a professionally taken pic.

Many of you nice men have messaged me. It's not easy to sift through. I adore the compliments and, if you want a response, say so.

For the many dominant men who have messaged me; I'm glad you enjoy the pic, compliments are always welcome. Be assured, there is not one gram of submissiveness within me and I'm not interested in "exploring". Dare I judge you on the "look" of your photo?

For the submissive men who have messaged me; I value your interest. Nevertheless, I'm not interested in quickies, cyber training, or relocation situations. Be patient, get to know me, and perhaps we can move on to talking about meeting each other.

I have been very active in the lifestyle, both privately and publicly, my whole adult life. I have a variety of interests and have tried nearly everything at least twice. This is an evolving artform and there are always new things to try and each experience is unique to the partners involved. I never claim to know everything, I only draw on my personal experiences.

I'm here because I'm a bit isolated in my current location and am looking for contacts. I am not a pro, I am not looking for kinky sex, and I am not intrested in moving into your life.

I appreciate intelligence, sincerity, good manners, and humor - not in any particular order.

The biggest rush for me is when a strong man gives himself over. I like the quote from Anais Nin; "Life shrinks or expands in proportioin to one's courage." I think the same of a man. I want a man, not a worm or a slave. I want a partner. I can offer you emotional sanctuary and physical stimulation, but only if you're man enough to know that's what you want.

Profiles are, in my opinion, just a reflection in a clear window. Unclear and a bit thin. Take time to get to know me and then you'll have a better idea of what I'm about.

If you don't get a response from me then you either didn't read well, or you sent me a generic greeting -yes, we women can tell when you cut and paste- , or I'm giving you another chance to make a better impression!