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Essentially, I'm a dominant woman in search of that elusive connection with a submissive man, with a view to developing some kind of long-term Mistress/slave dynamic.
I'm much more interested in D/s rather than S&M on its own, or any particular fetish or kink. I'm looking for an intense, depraved, stimulating (but ultimately sustainable) connection that extends - eventually - far beyond the bedroom. I have a keen sadistic streak, but I like to think of myself as a romantic sadist - I'll make you cry, but also kiss your tears ever so gently away. CBT, strap-ons, humiliation, watersports and service are of particular interest to me right now - but none of those things on their own do anything for me unless there is an underlying D/s dynamic.
I don't go in for all the domme clichés and stereotypes, because they seem to be more about submissive men's fantasies rather than any genuine female sexual agency, but also because I'm just as capable dominating someone in my pyjamas than in leather and stilettoes. I'm also far from one-dimensional. I'm bookish, fiercely independent, academic, nerdy and very political: I'm a feminist and a socialist, and like to talk social justice and anti-oppression politics just as much as I like to talk dirty. As such, I'm not looking for a mindless drone - compliance, servility and a deep-rooted desire to put your Mistress' pleasure before your own are essential - but so is personality, and the ability to hold up your end of an intelligent conversation. I want to meet someone who *interests* me. And who isn't a Tory.
I'm fat, and un-apologetically so.
To be clear, I'm not looking for anything online. Therefore, being located in/close to Glasgow/the Central Belt of Scotland is pretty important. You'd have to be very special for me to consider anything long-distance.
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Things to do to ensure I won't reply to you:
1. Have a blank profile. I took time to write something on mine, but why should you do the same?
2. Send me a cut and pasted message. Believe me, I can tell. Don't write anything personal that would indicate you've actually read my profile.
3. Send me a one line message. "hi how are you" immediately screams: dull, insipid, not an interesting bone in your body. Also lazy.
4. Call me Miss. It's MS, can't you read?
5. Be a dom. Or a switch. Seriously, no.
6. Re sending the same message, or spamming my inbox with pleas for me to talk to you.
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