Wow, looks like troll Sunday has come about thirty minutes early this week   lol

Why do the majority of the people here think that the Dominants are here to help them get off.  Now these are the same people that complain about money dominants, but that is just the service that they are looking for, under the guise of wanting a relationship.  So they just want to play online and not pay for it is all that is   lol

sad

Not sure what it is with Sundays but  jeez   lol

A lot of you shoot yourself in the foot on the first email.  You know what they say about first impressions.   lol

Just cause you send me a message does NOT make you under consideration. I have people contacting me for different reasons so I don't assume why people are contacting me, thus is one reason I put that in my profile on what to send me if you are wanting consideration. Also, just because you want consideration doesn't mean I'm interested

If you can not approach me with a "hello" before you start rattling off what YOU want, then we are not a match

On that note if you approach me rattling off what YOU want and how I might be "good enough" for you we are not a match

If you can't follow the instructions within my profie, then we are not a match

If you don't realize that "I" get to choose who I pick and it's not all about what you want, then we are not a match

If you think the dominants on here and are all the same and only here to serve you like we are some prostitutes that take clients, then we are not a match

If you don't agree with what I am looking for and the way I want to achieve it, that's fine, no hard feelings move on the the next profile.  But don't waste your time or mine trying to manipulate me into your perfect, whatever

Have a good Sunday

OMG it's trolling Sunday Sunday Sunday!!!!!!   LOL

Yes i put it on my other one too   lol

Thought I would put this here.  We all know how long updating your profile takes  LOL  I was passing the time one evening responding to emails (sorry I'm behind, getting better though  lol)  I accidentally pushed the "home" button, which no longer refreshes the page, but shows you profiles of all that are currently online. I started reading other's profiles (Dominant and submissive) and I was surprised to see there are still some lifestyle people on this thing  lol   Below are some phrases here and there and adjusted them to fit me, as well as some of my own words, to explain yet another way what I am looking for. (So thank you fellow CS'ers for the help  lol):

 Even though I have a rather in depth profile, I still get asked what I'm looking for.  So hopefully this will work for everyone (yeah yeah yeah I know the wankers aren't going to read this either LOL):

 Looking for a slave to train with love and discipline. I'm looking for a partner(s) that is no where near a doormat, like so many on here,  I am way too busy to deal with the game players that seem to keep finding me here. I am looking for someone who can hold their own in the vanilla world during business functions, etc., but also has the ability to enjoy and obey the rules and regs of the D/s lifestyle.

 I want my companion slave to be my lover (someone that can and will hold me at night), a friend (someone I can talk to on any level about anything),one I can trust and love back. Go on trips, day or otherwise and have actual fun. (D/s doesn't have to be done just at home ya know?   lol)  And, "no" for all you one handed typers that get mad and say, "You are just looking for a husband" just because I won't "assist" them in their efforts   lol  Trust me, a piece of paper is the LAST thing I'm looking for.  I know they say to never say never but.......NEVER!!!!     LOL   I believe submission is a gift to give not one to take

 I mix D/s with everyday vanilla life.  That means I also want a balance in family, friends and the lifestyle.  And I mean our actual families (i.e. mothers, fathers ,brothers, sisters, nephew, nieces, cousins, aunts, uncles;  are all important to me and should be for you as well)  (and "no" this does not mean that we will be shouting in the streets to our family and friends about our personal life, it just means we need to mingle with others just as much as we would if we were just vanilla.  Nothing makes people start nosing around like someone or a couple that only keeps to themselves.  LOL 

 I usually read history and profile before I respond to someone.  And guys for you that say you don't have kids but want them some day, just move on to the next profile, because that obviously won't be happening here   LOL

 Nothing makes me happier than to know that I have a loving, trusting, supportive family/foundation under me (yes, this time I am referring to my "in house" family)  My man/men are happy when I am pleased with them and nothing makes them sadder than knowing that they have displeased me. Me and my guy or guys and that we are all happy and taken care of and that we are living the life that is perfect for what we were all looking for.  Not someone who just says he wants it.  Those kind either try to manipulate you into what they want eventually, or they are here but miserable, making everyone else the same.  Or the worst ones that go with a family just to be with "anyone" and the whole time they are online trying to better deal you  lol

 No I wont meet or even DM you after we have a 5 minute conversation in mail if you want to meet me (usually just "hi" back and forth), Take your time. Talk to me.. I think there is a very special person behind this computer screen. If you are a real lifestyle submissive then you should want to take your time and learn as much as you can about the life that you claim you want to walk into, forever. If this isn't your style and you need to move faster, that's awesome, it's just not my way, so we can agree to disagree and you can move on to the next profile. No I don't plan on talking here forever before DM's but I will move on to whatever the next step is, when "I" am ready.  Nothing else will fill the void but what I seek. So don't ask, try to manipulate me, or think you are so special that I will change what I want.  You get to choose who and what you want, I deserve the same respect.

If you can not follow the simipliest of commands, and/or insist on doing things your way instead of what I have instructed, then there is no reason to contact me.

It is so funny the time people waste trying to maniuplate to get what they want instead of just reading profiles and actually find their match   lol

Hilarious those that stand on their rock claiming they want nothing to do with pro dommes and call them all kinds of names, yet that is exactly the service that they want done, they are just too cheap to pay for it.

Just crack out your wallet dude and get it over with.  You could have cum and gone to bed by now....stop wasting yours and everyone elses time   LOL

Now my new crush, my future husband is......(drum roll)   MILO VENTIMIGLIA!!!!  Now that's a perfect man!   lol

NEW CRUSH ALERT!!!!

Michele Morrone from the 365 days movies   I'm cheating on my Winter Soldier   LOL

FYI  I refer to myself as a dominant.   Mistress is not a term that I like.   Makes me think of the woman a man uses to cheat on his wife   lol

ok, guess this was cut for some reason;  If you are wanting consideratiion, please send me what I ask for within my profile.  If you don't , then I will assume you can't follow direction, so why even bother.   As for the pic,  I only want a face pic so that I can see with whom I am speaking.   Do I really have to say no dick pics?   (eye roll) 

If you think this is all just about sex, then we have nothing to talk about.   We are definitely not looking for the same things.

If you can't follow the simple instructions within my profile, how am I supposed to think you can follow instructions that I give you if I collared you?     Everything's a test people    LOL

Another loser.   Funny how you are the fake just because you don't choose them.   Maybe if you weren't so full of b.s. you'd have a better chance.    

If you can't follow direction and only want to do things your way, seems that you are the one that is fake sub/slave    LOL

Guess I'll just have to talk to the real ones that I am considering   lol

FINALLY!!!!  a real candidate!

PLEASE read profiles before contacting me.  If it is you way to jump into IM, or phone or meeting that's fine, but it's NOT my way.   I put that in my profile.   So don't contact me and try to bully me into doing things your way then throw a tantrum when it doesn't work.    Just simply click on the arrow and go to the next person.   Thank you

What happened to this site?  It used to be such a cool place where you could come and exchange ideas, even meet nice people.   

Apparently this site is now all about people that lie and say they want exactly what you are looking for, they even take the time to plan life events with you, but they are lying the whole time.  These losers are actually just looking for online romance.  They are the worst.  They string you along, make promise after promise, tell lie after lie, put you on an emotional roller coaster and never ever meet.   When that time comes, here come the excuses...tons of them, or they just disappear and will no longer respond to you.  They don't care about hurting people just their own sick agenda.   I pray that none of you run into these "soul suckers"  they can really devastate your life.