Dominent lifestyle Mistress seeking play partners with a possibility of long term collaring. Prior training is not necessary, a sincere willingness to serve is. I practice BDSM because it is who I am, not my job. I truly understand what a precious gift your submission to my will is and will respect your limits, all will be discussed prior to play. I am especially drawn to submissives who are
intelligent, articulate (when I wish to talk), and have a quiet dedication to service. I do not like to be continually challenged or bratiness. You must be unattached, vanilla or otherwise.

A little more about Me. I'm 43, hold a Master's degree in education hate clubs but love museums. I own my own home and have lived in several areas of the country. I ended up in Kansas courtsy of katrina but like it here for day to day living. For things that aren't available in My adopted small home town I travel, St Louis being a favorite of Mine in the area. New Orleans will always hold a special place in My heart but I have no plans to move back to that area. I have no children at home, one grown son in the area.
I began exploring my kinky side early on, as a teenager. At first I was submissive, but never felt fulfilled in that role. Within a few years I assumed the role of dominent and never looked back. I played very part time at first, in my thirties I collared two submissives/slaves, one of whom lived with me until his death (from natural causes) several years later, and for whom I still grieve.
Short term play has it's place, much like dating, and I have no interest in playing if there is zero chance in it's leading to a more permanent situation. Ideally live in. Online friends are always welcome however, as one can never have too many friends.