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Yes. It is a lot to read. If you arent willing to read it now, please do not contact me. I require diligence and a personal commitment. I will give the same. Will share photos via email or messenger. Due to work, discretion is necessary. Two roads diverged in a yellow wood, and sorry I could not travel both and be one traveler, long I stood, and looked down one as far as I could to where it bent in the undergrowth… I have been in this lifestyle for a very long time.I am formally trained in the structured and ritualistic “Old Guard” manner of D/s.I have training in consent, scene safety, protocol and etiquette, legality, obedience, understanding roles, social and psychological issues in regards to D/s, recognizing red flags, kink/fetish play and have a healthy dose of common sense.

I was trained in an Old Guard House of D/s in Middle America.This is a group of people in D/s that have come together to create a family unit of sorts.There are associated Houses that make up a larger community across different regions. When I moved five states from my home, I found myself plunged into an area that seems to be an abyss!I have found some very sincere and wonderful people in the lifestyle, but the groups of D/s are centered more about larger cities.Southwest Virginia seems to be the Black Hole of D/s, M/s… once you go in… you never come out!

We began a small group here in the area of SWVA called V.ALT.I was content to live day to day in a more vanilla style setting and focus on my deeper desires while hidden in the darkness of night.I guess this gave me some time to think.I have been of a submissive nature all my life.Of course, those who live this lifestyle know that even submissives must take on the raiment of a dominant personality if she is to be mother and teacher.I work outside of the home, so daily have to put on “my big people clothes” and go out into the world as an aggressive, modern woman.

I found solace and comfort in my submissive role, in my training, practicing what I had learned.It is still a big part of who I am, but I have also found I am growing, as we tend to do through our lifetime.When I began my own submissive journey, my training Mistress explained that she had been trained as a submissive, but with the understanding she would one day take her Dominant role.She wanted to know what those beneath her would experience physically, emotionally.Our House of D/s called this “trained with the intent”.She knew she would be a Domme, even while practicing as a submissive.

I never imagined that one day I would follow in those footsteps.I have found, over the many years, that my need to mentor, teach and nurture another grows very strong.Every day, we take a new breath; we make choices to tread a new path.I am excited for this new experience.I know I will succeed. Do not mistake that my being of a submissive role means I have never served as a very competent Top during play.I am also a lover, a mother and a friend, so I am fully aware of how to care and nurture another.

What am I looking for in a lil one? Someone who is SAFE, SANE and Consensual and understands the importance of each of these characteristics.Compassion and Passion.Respect and Curiosity. A willingness to learn and a sense of adventure. Must be open minded, and wild of thought.Ready for adventure and easily excitable. Size, skin color, hair color and race are not an issue.

I prefer female for an intimate relationship.Something I can share all aspects of what I have learned and what I want to learn from this new experience.I prefer someone who is mature enough to not be the willful “brat”, although being playful is a plus.My target age would be between 25 and 35.Bisexuality is definitely a plus.She should be aware that her training will include time spent with a male Dominant under my supervision.Her limits will be respected and this time with the Dom does not have to include intercourse.Her training MAY include all aspects of her life, including health and life skills.

If you want online only, I will consider you.My stipulations will be that your availability be compatible to my own.I must have access to a cell phone number at the very least.I will respect your existing relationship with a vanilla mate but I will not hide from them.I will, however, attempt to help you find a way to open them to at least a consideration of your desires and needs.I will not EVER break a confidence or “out” you to anyone, ever.Period.

I am not actively seeking a male submissive of my own, but I will entertain the idea of a platonic ownership.I will care for you and attempt to provide you with play time with a friend that will meet your needs.If you are interested in a role of servitude or obedient pet and understand I am NOT interested in sex, feel free to contact me for consideration.All male interaction will be offline ONLY. I will not entertain you boys online. My other responsibilities suffer.

If you read this entire post and wish to message me, please put "I read it" in the subject line. I have a very keen idea of who I am looking for… is that you?

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PwettyGrl
 
 Age: 30
  California