I am a Dominant female who sometimes enjoys being Topped. Ideally I am looking for a male submissive who has some training or is willing to learn to be a service Top for me occasionally, as well as my submissive.

I am not interested in any crossdressers, no offense to anyone but it just is not my thing.
I prefer my males masculine.

I am bi and would like to find a female submissive as well. I prefer curvy women around my own age or younger.

Now a bit about me. I am an intelligent, easy going sort of person, but I can have a temper at times. I have been called a "little girl Princess" lol. I love to laugh and have adventures. I adore animals and have several of them. I enjoy playing computer games, dining, theater, antique cars, weapons and traveling. Yes I am a Star Trek and Renissance faire geek.

My kinky Domme side is sadistic and enjoys inflicting pain upon my sub. Bondage, CBT, hot wax, humiliation, chastity (occasional), face slapping, nipple torture are just some of the things that I enjoy doing to my playmate.

BITING Is a huge turn on for me as is hair pulling and rough sex. Warning any sub of mine will be expected to participate and hopefully enjoy these kinks.

My bottom side is more of a little girl type who wants a loving, caring, protective Daddy type. My kinky interests for myself are: bondage, spanking, role playing, costumes, sex toys, hot wax, and more.


I am overweight so if that bothers you then please pass my profile by. I have a medical condition that makes keeping weight off or loosing it almost impossible.

I am attracted to tall (5 foot 10 and over)well groomed men with nice hair and extra poundage is fine. He must be 35-49 years old, intelligent, have a great sense of humor, be dependable and financially stable. Honesty, obedience and good communication skills are a must. He must like animals, kids and a have a good sense of humor regarding life.

I am attracted to curvy women who are intelligent, have a good sense of humor, caring and phyiscally are on the heavier side. She must be 35-49 years old and be dependable, obedient and financially stable, be honest and have good communication skills. She must like animals, kids and have a love of life.

I do NOT smoke, drink or do drugs. My sub may drink socially (one or two) but will not smoke or do drugs.