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I am a lifestyle Mistress and a pro-domme. I am foremost a woman.
I'm told that I play reasonably hard, I don't know any other way. I cannot guarantee that I can play without leaving marks. I have a sadistic streak and I don't usually play with those who can't handle that aspect of me and what I get off on. sadism, in it's many forms turns me on.
I have a huge thing for tease and denial so sex, although it may be present, very likely wont ever happen. Chastity and denial of a man turns me on no-end. I mix sensuality, tenderness and sadism with humiliation always, they fit together perfectly in my world. I am cruel and I am affectionate. I love to laugh.
I've always thought that I couldn't do the humiliation thing, but from what I've been told by those on the receiving end - I do it alot and I do it well.
It takes me a while to settle into my groove with a new play partner, and I may not initially seem dominant at all, I do not assume Dominance over any other person unless they have consented and we have an agreement. I like to suss you out in my own way before I decide to proceed. I will not make all the decisions but I do offer choices - often between the lesser of two evils. I expect to be obeyed - that's what this is about. Control and power over a man is offered and not taken, so to challenge is outside the boundaries of that arrangement.
I love to hear about your fantasiesbecause I want to know. I am not wanting a bucket list of things for you to tick off but what you enjoy is also important to my own enjoyment.
I expect to be pampered, this means that a sub has to make decisions about what form that would take - oral sex is out of the question - I don't often enjoy it, so that's off the list of pampering options. You would have to get to know me as a person first and have an understanding and a need to to please me before you could make those decisions.
My main interests as Mistress are meta-consent, the psychology of slavery and M/s,psycho-sexual experimentation and analysis, fetish photography, exhibitionism, medium to heavy pain play, fear play, degradation, objectification, tease and denial, humiliation play, sensory deprivation, spanking, discipline, masks, punishment and discipline, bondage, restraint, predicament bondage, house service, transvestism, orgasm control and denial, human furniture, watersports, cuckolding, foot worship, domestic service, cbt, forced bi-sexual activities, gangbangs, swinging, anal fisting and laughter as well as a huge fetish for using my feet for CBT.. the list could go on but these are my main interests.
I don't do online or cyber play, only real life sessions and relationships. I live in Melbourne Australia. I expect a submissive man or slave to have an insightful mind and intelligence. I expect him to inspire me to push further than either of us have gone before and be open to experimenting with new things.
I am a firm believer in aftercare for both parties, not only for the slave. Debriefing and journalling to gather our thoughts after the event are an important aspect to my style of domination.
I am not seeking any form of 24/7 relationship or white picket fences and moving in together to play house. I need my independence and space. I have several play partners and very close friends with benefits and my relationships with them are non-negotiable. I am polyamorous. I will not ever be monogamous, no matter how marvellous you think you are, it will always take more than one person to fulfil my needs. That's just me.
My Ideal Person: You are over 35yo, you live in Melbourne and can accomodate, you have been around the block of experiences (or part the way around the block) as a sub/slave, you are not a brand spanking newbie, you are not clingy. You are comfortable in your own skin, you are confident and compassionate, generous, caring, adventurous.
You are a good conversationalist, an excellent listener, a devoted, passionate, loyal man. You have a wicked imagination and can make me laugh until I pee!
I am not into Age Play at all and am not searching for my Daddy and definitely do not want to be your Mummy. NOT INTO SCAT.
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